Don't Marry Your Man If He Lacks These 4 Traits | Thought Catalog it’s not: is your man always having work problems or making excuses to stay unemployed until he finds the “perfect” job? “if his entire family is adding you on facebook the first month or your meeting the family on the first few dates, you’re seeing big, red flags,” she says. it’s important to have an identity and individuality when in a relationship. if it feels there is a competing element involved, you may feel that regardless of what you do or say, the family will win,” she says. but men who are constantly suggesting that they want to just stay in and watch a movie early on in the dating game are likely the lazy type, or only out for sex. i want to thank the author so much for writing this, as it’s something i will be rereading a lot! wary of men who constantly look for deals and comment on prices early on in the dating process.
No Money, No Honey: Unemployed Men Are Deal Breakers for “building a career shows an ability to commit, work through difficulties, and showcases a development of people skills. think about it: in school, it was easy to meet new people, but as we grow older, the opportunities to make new friends (and see old ones) can seem more limited which means unless your guy has a solid crew of constant companions, he’s likely not going to always have someone to do something with. the alternative is waking up one day down the road divorced with five kids and fifty thousand dollars in debt, watching re-runs of "honey boo boo" on nick at nite. “people can bond over their career passion or it can highlight opposing values,” says estes who adds that the way a person approaches their career can also show how they can be in a relationship. still, i’m a firm believer that all adults should know to make a decent omelette and steak, and they should want to wash the dishes within a few hours of the meal. now, (i hope) you know that if a man freaks out on the waiter, he’s likely going to do the same to you, and those men who hate all of their exes? someone who is strong for others because that is what is needed in that moment.