Women Dating A Man Less Attractive Than Them Are Happier
New study finds women who date less attractive men have better
think you should relax and give more guys a chance. one of my single male coworkers recently asked a female friend to go shopping with him, which is also nearly always a good idea for the single guy (unless said friend has a taste for affliction shirts or skinny jeans 😉 ). i know we guys do it all the time; i’ve heard of women with only 3 sentences in their profiles getting over a thousand messages from guys. with selena and cecilia, i had the same thought as i was reading the article – maybe 80% of men on dating sites really do come across as unattractive, because of the photos they submit (basically, most guys post whatever the cat dragged in – squinting against the sun, zombie hands on their shoulders because they’d cut someone out of the picture, etc etc)? i want younger and more attractive too, and in the real world i have some chance of actually getting that; online, i have none., this is confusing b/c i just looked on okcupid now, and you can’t give someone a zero, so i don’t know how people can score less than “1”, unless okcupid has made changes since this blog post. personally i have fallen for men for a wide variety of reasons: attractiveness, confidence, humor, sexiness, kindness, intelligence, spiritual depth, it all depends on the package! are these men particularly unattractive or is there some new higher standard for average?) thanks to intense socialization beginning at birth and continuing throughout life, women spend a lot–a lot–more time, effort and money making themselves attractive to men, a situation that most men feel perfectly entitled to, thus leading to today’s world where a 55-year-old sloth with a beer gut living in a trailer sends messages to beautiful young 28-year-old women with a graduate degree. shave their heads because it looks less obvious that they’re balding than it does if they just leave it and then you can see all the areas where the hair fails to grow. i’ll find someone unattractive from across a room but then be attracted to them when they stand next to me. are always reading romance novels that feature an unrealistically hot guy on the front cover, or daytime soaps where only the hottest actors are hired, then they seem to get the false impression that all good guys are supposed to look like that. in a normal bell curve, 5% of the women were found to be the least attractive and 5% were found to be the most attractive, with most women falling in the middle 90%.
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a man’s career/salary matter less to me ’cause i’m like many women on here: smart, independent, good job…. “the results reveal that having a physically attractive husband may have negative consequences for wives, especially if those wives are not particularly attractive,” says researcher tania reynolds. however, i do think that the almost endless options, the one click away aspect, and the ability to sit in your own living room and come up with a million fantasies about people you’ve never met seems to exaggerate issues like looks. highly doubt okc has come up with an algorithm to determine whether a picture can be deemed un/attractive to “most people. about all the porn guys watch full of teenage girls with fake boobs and hair who supposedly love threesomes and anal sex? find that 99% of men aren’t good looking unless you meet them in real life. as a very single but average looking 50ish 6 foot male, probably earning a sexual attractiveness rating of 5 or 6 issued by attractive women who are a 9 or 10 themselves, but i do in fact have all my dark hair and i’m not over weight by any measure, but i do in fact watch a lot of porn but not obsessively. i know we guys do it all the time; i’ve heard of women with only 3 sentences in their profiles getting over a thousand messages from guys. agree, a statement like “women rate 80% of all men as below average-looking” shows women as pretty brainless – dumb chicks cannot even divide 100 by 2 without getting an 80 – so on the surface, it is easy to laugh off. there is not some yawning chasm between attractive and unattractive, there are a lot of men in between those extremes of perfect features and imperfect features. they don’t want an overweight and ugly woman (but he is) but expects an attractive woman who cares for herself, to settle with him. my problems with men is they find me intimidating or the ones i find attractive have self esteem issues because they listen to men and women who know nothing about relationships and feel like they’ll never be good looking enough.• the average male sender gets a 27% reply rate from the most attractive females.
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a lot of my girlfriends will wonder why i’m with a guy because they’ll think he is “ugly” or “unattractive” or “not in my league. you’re writing to a very attractive person, you now know you’re competing with everyone else on the website. the guys, being guys i guess, just assumed that they were. all right: what about their assumption that in a “realistic” world assessments of attractiveness should follow a bell curve? i think that all these women want the same three guys…. the results revealed that women who had attractive husbands were more likely to diet and constantly try to lose weight in order to look better and better ad infinitum, which is not fun. that were the case, then the new guys that appeared in my feed whom i would then rank 4 or 5 if i thought i wanted to meet them would have had to have ranked me 4 or 5 first so that once i ranked them 4 or 5, we would both be sent the mutual match notification. it reminds of me of that bogus story about black women’s level of attractiveness that was recently posted on the psychology today website. women, thanks to the investment not only of pregnancy but child-rearing, are vastly choosier–a single act can result in pregnancy and then we live with it for 18 years, whereas a guy can theoretically spawn 365 kids in a single year, none of which he necessarily needs to contribute to (anthropological studies show, contrary to pop assumption, that the average man in a hunger-gatherer society contributed about 10% or less of any one kill to his existing children or the women he had fathered them with–most of it went to higher-status males or other fertile females). whatever i had in common with the attractive men when i was deemed unattractive by okc (staff or algorithm) were the same as when i was deemed more attractive. i think that would lead to a disastrous, miserable relationship if i was “guilt tripped” into being with a guy whom i found unattractive (even if was wonderful on the inside). if this study were done correctly, it would have been a broader cross section age wise and maybe even “hot” guys with bad pics. the "grass could be greener" mentality could make these men less satisfied and less committed to maintain the marriage.
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but the role of physical attractiveness in well-established partnerships, such as marriage, is somewhat of a mystery.• the average female sender gets a 30% reply rate from the most attractive males. however approached the women in direct proportion to how attractive they were. couples with more attractive husbands, both partners were less supportive of one another. for sure, the more attractive my pic was, the better looking options were presented to me; the less attractive my pic, the less attractive were presented to me, and i assume mine to them. sex perverts now haunt women’s restrooms with government and corporate blessing.) evolutionary psychology: tons of scientific data over decades covering millions of years of behaviour not only for our own species, but for our closest primate relatives, shows this to be a consistent and perfectly rational strategy on part of both men and women: men (and other male primates) are less discriminating because the consequences of a bad choice don’t last long and aren’t serious.* it does not make intuitively bad sense to me to find that most women rate most men as relatively less attractive in the world we live in. okcupid reports that the most attractive women still receive 5x more email than average women and 28x more email than unattractive women. of the guys i’ve dated look anything like one another, as i’m not so much interested in a “look” or a “type” as i am who they are. you’d think that would have taught me a lesson but it’s still difficult to get around some of the bad pictures. people who are preoccupied with searching for a mate are devoting less time to self-development and any issues that need to be addressed, and are therefore remaining in stasis in many ways. in other words, hang on for it, *most men are less attractive than most women.