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am a woman in my early 50’s and i have been dating my boyfriend who is a year older than me for about 8 months. i’ve don’t a ton of research on this and cannot find any explanation of how a dating profile can show recent activity if the user has not been on for supposedly over a year. i wonder why dating is so hard for myself but seems so easy for others. it’s hard to judge why his profile is up otherwise – it might be because he’s still looking to date others or it might just be that he’s forgotten about it., online dating is still new and it changes all the time. the worst part is that he is doing this while i am sitting in the same room, but hides what site he is on! i met a guy on a dating app, we went on a date. initially struggled with online dating but over time became quite successful using it. – that’s its okay to continue chatting and even dating online while dating and building a relationship with one of us. i don’t wanna pressure him, as i want him to make the choice on his own, but it’s still so annoying that he lied, twice actually. i need a break from online dating so i’ve hidden my profile. i’m happy to say i accomplished all those things and with support from my best friend, decided to start dating again – but i was certainly not looking for a relationship or to get serious. your situation is a little different because it sounds as if he didn’t have a dating profile when you started dating but now he has one (? i deactivated my pof online dating acount 2 weeks ago as soon as we discussed that we were dating. one thing bothers me though, his profile in the dating site is still active – though he told me before that he rarely checks or chat with women in it. then i can still look online and see that he is on those sites almost everyday. i’d be careful: if he’s now dating another girl and things don’t work out with her, he’s likely to try and come back and make you feel like everything was fine and you were overreacting. a guy checking his dating profile isn’t always a sign that he’s unhappy and based on your agreement i guess it’s fine for him to do so. still, these are areas you will need him to define. in the meanwhile, you might still get those email alerts when a new match has arrived.. but at the same time i cant understand the need to have a conversation with guys on a dating site? i like to stay chill, but it’s hard when the person i deeply like and have put a lot of time into isn’t willing to sacrifice his current dating life while i am. are you ok with easier opportunities via online dating while shagging her? it was identical to the match account he had (still has actually, but there’s been no activity for months). how do i let what would normally be a wonderful relationship (if it were not for his dating profile) progress, or how do i let it go? only problem is that i now trust no-one and everyone i meet on the net is suspect, although now i keep my profile up (even though i do not use it) so at least they know i my profile is still active. except the fact that my bf wanted to date me and see me, but still thought there was someone else out there “better” for him, so he kept the site up.

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question: do the same mechanics apply vice versa (woman continues to browse the onlinedating site)? i had been on a few dates from the site, and was just about to lose interest completely when i met him. i have also noticed that on his computer he is getting on another site and looking at personals, mostly from other states. he’s not that into you if he’s still looking at other women online. well after we had sex and all he is still interested cause we went out again and i told him i had my period and he didn’t care. i think these are all good things and he did give me a heads up well in advance and still wants to meet. i have active accounts on the on line sites as well but its been months since ive even thought to look at them. think that many guys who use internet dating think of it as a “smorgesbord” and feel that it is their right to taste everything on offer! i was upset since according to dating norm he should have paid. i made it clear that i was not looking to settle down, but did want to continue dating him to see where it could lead, but could only do it if neither of us were going to continue to see other people. i guess my question is, if it’s almost been a year and his feelings haven’t changed since we first started seeing each other and he’s still going on dating websites, should i even try to thinkta he would someday want a relationship? they are not looking out for you if they still are checking out the menu while proclaiming they are crazy about you. the funny thing about being in a relationship when you’ve been single for so long is that you go into it having all these preconceived ideas on how you would react to certain dating situations, and you prejudge your future relationships based on your past ones. i know that’s easier said than done but if you do end up dating him again just be very cautious…sounds to me like he would have cheated on you if he would have had the chance. just wanted some suggestions from you about moving on or should i still date him as it really bothers me and also when he tells me that he doesn’t know what he really wants. if he still doesn’t make the right decision (taking his profile down), i think you may want to consider putting yours back up as well to see if you can find other people to date. he met his wife using online dating and has been giving advice and helping people improve their results since 2007. i found he was still on there, not just on there, but online now and he had added a new picture with a shirt that i got for him for christmas. there where little things that happened when we first started dating that i didn’t concern myself with too much at the time, but now i felt like i had to get resolution about those things if i was really going to make a big commitment like this with him. he says he really likes me and is into me and still getting to know me. erica – i’m honestly not sure how you could get him off the sites barring getting more aggressive with him about it. a married man let me tell you even after years and years with a woman i love, i still rarely know what’s going on in her head. they like to look and the crave for attention from the opposite sex. even after three discussions and several screenshots as well as telling him how to delete his account and how to bury his cookie email tracks, he still could not resist.!Are you new to online dating or looking to improve your success using it? he says he doesn’t want to rush things and does not just want to date anyone, he is dating to find someone to marry and wants to be sure. i got my revenge though and set him up by using a friend’s profile to catch a great big rat (and even though it was me he was writing to he still lied and lied and lied) and i caught him out big time.

Boyfriend still active on dating site

on, my now boyfriend and i started dating and it was casual dating for both of us. i had asked him about this issue a few times and each time he just informs me that he is not cheating on me or dating anyone else. my ‘dating’ experience had been extremely limited, despite being married and divorced twice. there was all these messages from the dating website that we meet on. How do you tell if he is interested in dating you exclusively? no wonder so many lose faith in the online dating venue. i am still not sure how to handle the situation. but my daughter has this thing where she loves to look at his pictures and since his phone is touch screen and she is only 3 she sometimes hits other buttons, well about a week ago she opened his browser and ended up on the exact dating site i am talking about. but, last weekend over in the same friends house she told me that his profile is still there. he has no idea that i know about this site.’m still very interested to hear your thoughts and advice. he is introducing me to his dad (who lives out of state but is coming to visit) next week, so thats kind of a big deal but yet he is still doing this…help please! every now and then, you come across the online dating profile of someone you know, but when that someone you know happens to be someone you’re supposed to be in a relationship with, you can’t help but start questioning the validity of that relationship. and i think what you’re saying is that what really bothers you is that as soon as you’re done spending time together he’s on the site, right? we were casually talking about something and he slipped something about the site and i asked him: “wait, are u still on the site” he answered that yes he’s still on it but it’s “just there”. took 6 months to tell me he loved me, but still has his profile up even tho its hidden…and i just grew on him like a comfortable old shoe…lol. a couple of weeks went by and he still hadn’t taken it down. then, he has been trying to sleep with my with no strings attached and even today he told me he misses me and wants me, but still sees people that he met on the site, but i am the only one he really likes… sure…. i don’t like to come across as the vulnerable one & dating commitment phobes in the past has made me tougher so i don’t want to bring up a conversation of where are things going or mention his profile still being up. a man can frame it any way he likes, but the simple truth is that a man doesn’t keep his dating profile up unless he wants to keep his options open. he also said he has friends he talks to but no one that he is seeing or dating. when a day ago he made a point in asking me how it was going on the site. so, if this is the case, why would his profile still be up? in the cases where his profile is still up, i would expect that another month after bringing up your concerns is all it should take for him to decide (and it really should be much faster than this). in your case, he asked you to be his girlfriend…he needs to cut out the unnecessary continuation of online dating now. he goes to this site and changes his status without thinking about his profile text and logs out. slept together after about 5 dates and it just felt right but neither of us mentioned about being exclusive, i think we both took it we were only seeing and sleeping with each other, at this point he was still active on site but my time on there was becoming less.

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also said she wasn’t one for dating sites ( no sense) and if a guy was to try and talk to her she would say she was dating someone. are going along great, he talks about the future alot, i mean making plans and things like that but he still calls me his “friend”. i suppose if she’s just dating you casually, it may be less stressful to think that you might be cheating on her. well…i don’t think it’s a *good* thing that he’s still logging in. his title on the site is “just looking” but his goal is to “fall in love”…. a week goes by and it still says active within 24hours. i’m still also unsure if i want to be in a serious exclusive relationship with him. i then asked if he was still on the dating site and he said yes. it has been another 2 weeks after that conversation and his profile is still active. do text and talk on the phone quite often but i had came to realise that its already been 3 months and his profile is still active and he goes on it quite often. dating apps and sites give you the option to change your relationship status from single to married to everything in between. if you’re two months in and his profile is still up, it’s time to get your profile back up as well., you’ve been on a couple of dates and the two of you seem to have really hit it off, but then you noticed that the guy you’re super interested in changed his profile photo on the dating app you met on, which means that he must still be active. i asked him if dating or seeing somebody and he replied he is dating here and there and kinda seeing someone but nothing serious. i recently signed up on another website and have been looking at other prospects because i feel even though i care about him, i don’t want to put all my eggs in one basket if he is unsure of me as well. we still caught up on sunday evening and it was lovely. i really do love him and want to be with him, everything would be great if i could just figure out how to get him off those sites. he’s removed his dating profiles, although i don’t like that i had to get very demanding about that. i do have some advice but let’s first look at one reader’s email and user this as an example for better understanding where you stand with your guy:My issue comes with him still having his profile up, and with my curiosity getting the best of me, i check almost everyday just to see when he last logged on – seems to be every few days or so. – it’s very possible that he would change as we don’t really know what’s causing him hesitation from fully committing to just dating you and hiding his profile. since i see he’s on, i browse my matches but very rarely wink at anyone and don’t message people back (in all honesty, i kind of got sick of online dating and had just tried it because it seemed novel until that feeling wore off). find out how i failed at first but then had great success with online dating – download my free 100+ page online dating guide ebook today! we both want to get married, so this site and our culture is the norm for that. just met someone this past weekend and we “hooked up” for a few days and it was nice…and i find it weird that he still emails me on the site seeing that we have had such a hot weekend… i have stated that i find it weird to communicate since he and i have each others phone number and i also stated that i date one person at a time and that if he chooses to continue looking that is on him…. if you see that he’s active all the time, you could send him an email from your dating account to his and ask him why he’s so active on the site..but between the texts and the online dating profile still being live i am not sure what to do. 4: you’re just not sure if she’s still actively online dating.

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i still had my profile up and so did he. i deleted my profile ages ago, but this afternoon i had a look and he is still using it.’ i had so many answers to that question like if he liked me as much as he said would he still be looking at other girls, or how do i know he’s not talking to others? it i looked to see if his profile was still active and it said ‘online today’. though he already told me he wasn’t interested in dating other people, and we had both disabled our profiles a week or two before. in the browser history i was looking to see if he had been viewing porn websites when i noticed a dating website there. if you’ve been on one or two dates and your guy still has his profile up, you have nothing to worry about. he told me he’s not into the casual thing with other girls, i know he’s active on his dating profile. maybe you should join all those dating sites just to piss him off! you have a friend that also uses the same dating service as you? we met on a dating website, and the relationship took off right from the start. have been dating a wonderful woman for over 3 months that i met on match. started talking to a girl for around 2 weeks, we met on a dating website and have been talking daily. he brought up my fake profile but i told him i did ‘t want to talk a put it cos i am still hurting. i’ve lived in a military town my whole life, and i avoided dating military men for that entire reason. rather than sneaking around, trying to piece all the information together, you really should just come out and ask her exactly why she still has an active dating profile.. i’ll summarize the positive and negative of what i found:He had not been texting or emailing other women since over a year ago (at least from what i could tell). did a very filtered search on the website and discovered a replica account without a public picture. met my boyfreind on the site in april 2012, we spoke over txt for like 3 weeks and met up. i asked why and he said he wasn’t really feeling the site etc. have the same story as above, i started dating this guy a month ago. i have never done online dating myself but because of my boyfriends profile i now log in under a fake profile every day to check his activity. – i do like your friends advice to continue dating others. i recently started seeing this guy and we met through an online site a long time ago but we just started talking through facebook. met a guy on a dating website about 3 weeks ago, and ever since then (tons of long emails back and forth), we’ve been really attached. i even had one reader who had gave the man a hard time the day after their first date when his profile was still up. hours from where i live, so we knew that dating each other wouldn’t be that easy, but we also said to each other that we would make it work.

What to Do When Your Boyfriend is Still Online Dating

and i hope it goes without saying that when you enter a relationship where you both are only interested in each other, at that point the multiple dating would stop! then if it doesn’t, you could tell him a friend told you that she saw him actively online and you could ask why his profile is still active. strange thing is, while i deleted my profile from the site on which we’d met, he hadn’t and i assumed he’d just cease using it or hide his profile and not renew his subscription but, turns out he has a match membership discovered by my suspicious sister whose brought it to my attention. boat here…been dating my guy for 11 months now – we are both 42…. the person you’re dating reveals that they still have an active online dating profile, we’ve outlined seven different scenarios that will likely come up. and i don’t care how innocent it might be, it still hurts. you meet someone online and you start spending more and more time together, the last thing you’re thinking about is your online dating profile, let alone updating or deleting it. might be the case that you and your significant other just have completely different attitudes towards the way online dating sites and apps should work. i asked him if things were still good because i really wanted things to work out between us. so i began “snooping” and found that even though after 6 months he was still using the dating site that we met on, but he is doing it from his phone so that i can’t check. i confronted him about it and told him how much it confused me and hurt me, since i thought we were still good, and that he wanted things to work out. where he stands may not be where you hope, but he should still know where that is! i know, because i have a friend that is on the same dating site and she keeps me updated, unfortunately..and during all this, we are both still active on the dating sites…. if you’re wondering what you should do or how should you feel when the person you’re dating reveals that they still have an active online dating profile, we’ve outlined seven different scenarios that will likely come up. i met my boyfriend on an online dating website years ago. if we are “monogamous” should we even have these sites up? i asked if there was anything missing from our relationship as that would be the only reason why i would go on a site. so it concerns me when i found out that his profile is still up and he goes online like pretty much everyday. dating profile is still active – is he interested or not? even after all this thinking and reading: i still don’t understand entirely. he had told me earlier that he wanted to get off the dating site. a man leaves his online dating profile active, what does it mean? then about two months after, i went on the site with my friends user info and searched for him. both accounts are still “active” technically, but there hasn’t been any activity on either. i told him if i ever considered dating another man i would be honest. (this is because my 20 yr old is here still and this way we can have alone time.

Is the Person You're Seeing Still Actively Online Dating?

’m gonna see how it goes over the next month, if he’s still going on then he doesn’t care about my feelings and i’d prefer to be someone’s one and only, not their until something better comes along! we still text once a week and i usually text first or he does if i don’t. we started off as being friends with each other and now started dating but he never mentioned about being exclusively but when i check the dating site each day he seems to be on it very often as i am very confused as to why when he informed me that he is my boyfriend and still looking for someone else.. which is solely his decision… however i have the right to vocalize my thoughts which is what i did… i would never tell him to close his account and also to those of you that are upset that you man has his account out there… how do you know unless yours is out there or you are still online? you discover that the guy you’re with still has his profile live  and that he’s been active within the last few days, then it might be time to consider whether you’re investing more in the relationship than he is. finally bothered me so much that his profile was still active that i asked him about it. he starting to show signs that he is interested in me and i am meeting his friends already and its been 2 weeks of dating. ever since then i can’t think about anything else and i still feel sick to the very core, i just want to know why he would do this! i still haven’t come across a problem like mine. 3: you’re putting a lot into the relationship but he’s still using the app. the online dating profile is tellng me that he is still keeping his options open just incase. however, if we use your examples of the real world versus online dating (and really a case that you appear to make that they should operate more similarly): if it were the real world instead of online dating wouldn’t you have been more firm that he shouldn’t be talking to another woman/making himself available to other women? he might still be treating your relationship as a casual thing and assuming that you are too. that being said, i’d still be cautious – it takes 5 minutes to take your profile down so his excuse doesn’t make a lot of sense to me. them out to get some insight into what’s normal online dating behavior, and what’s definitely not ok. that online dating is a normal way to meet people, new issues have come up that are totally different from the things daters use to worry about. met him through an online dating site six months ago. now 5 weeks later i will be meeting his kids and going to a family gathering soon but he is still online. i am aware that there is a 30 minutes lag off in okc, like you will still appear online even though you already logged out. but he’s still so kind to me to help me in my time of need. as a result, the social norms and expectations we have for dating before changes right along with the technology we’re using. they can be crazy about you and still want to screw the basement chick. other times, you get hit with a case of fomo, or fear of missing out, and you take a gander at all the men or women you could be dating instead. curiousity always killed the cat and i checked to see if he was still active a couple weeks ago and he was. have been dating a wonderful woman for over 3 months that i met on match. notice shes still going on this same dating website we met on ( i had taken mine off since we met) but this worries me so much that i asked if she still went onto the site and she said she did. i told him that it hurt to see him on the site and that i felt that everything was going good and i did not understand why he was on.

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but, i suddenly asked him about his still online in online dating or not? again, not with any type of ultimatum, but i’d let her know that you’d be interested in concentrating on dating each other exclusively. i was living in the belief that he had deleted his site and i didn’t even doubt him about it for a second, sine he had promised me he would. once the “exclusivity” talk came up (from my end): i asked if he was still on that dating site, because i took my profile down about two weeks after we met. he checks his emails in front of me and i didn’t think much of it that he still got emails from another dating website and he had said he couldn’t remember the password. i am just going to start dating other people and not even worry about it. which btw still says “singe” and “actively seeking a relationship”. he still makes updates to his site and says he is single and “looking for long term and short term dating. the fact that he changed his profile means that he still uses the site. this online dating drama made me push him & drove him ‘crazy’. a man doesn’t use online dating for anything other than it’s intended purpose – to meet new women. i understand not wanting to fight and dropping it but his excuse for being on the site was pretty weak…. we are 4 months into the relationship and he still says he’s scared of commitment. i got really sad about he still having it up and went into my zone for the rest of the night. mean we are just getting to know each other, and it’s still very new, but since i had asked him if he is still on dating sites or talking to other women, i feel like he wasn’t sincere by telling me he wasn’t.’ve had several readers write me after they argued with the man they were dating to ask if i thought they had made the right choice. after 6 months of dating, he still introduces me as a friend to people he knows when we go out. week two came and i found that while i was waiting for him to respond to a text i sent (45mins) he was on the dating website from his phone. i asked about it and to his credit -it is an old flame and he hasn’t been on the site since april. they’re both in the same college so and both haven’t returned to the site since that day. have said to him that if he likes, he can continue dating but he needs to tell me, so that i can do the same. it seemed as if we were back to where we were 🙂 but something got me curious and so i went on the same website that we met on thre years ago and there he is on line that day. i’ve talked to a lot of women where this type of situation can drag on for months only to see the man start dating another woman. kinda confuses me…but i have created a fake profile on the same site with no picture and said that i don’t have any kids and made myself 2 inches taller and also put that i live in the town i grew up in. when i saw him last night i casually (on the outside) mentioned when deleting my profile that i’d seen he was still going online. my profile was still up i did message him while he was online and made a little joke about him being there one day and his response was that when people make the effort they at least deserve a polite ‘no thank you’…but that’s been a month ago..what am i going to be with you, sleep with you, & be wondering whats going on; on the side with the dating site….

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katz makes a great point in one of his blog posts about this very dating dilemma online. he said that he wants to continue dating me and that he wants to work on things. i still think its about respect… and not so much about committment. if the two of you have worked out some understanding on a difference between exclusive and girlfriend/boyfriend, isn’t he still headed towards breaking that agreement? a friend advised me to keep dating other people, but i’ve never really worked that way… but i do feel i need to back off a bit from this man. six weeks ago i met a guy from an online dating site. instead, just ask her if she’s still using the app and start a conversation. but when those unique dating situations suddenly become your present reality, you still feel like a deer caught in headlights no matter how many books about polyamory or open relationships you may have read. basically i met this guy on a marriage website and we got to know each other of the basic stuff. online dating was an avenue i hadn’t tried and i was curious! i told him that i couldn’t continue on with him though if he still wanted to see other women. i’ve been dating this guy i met on pof for 3mts now. explain how much you enjoyed spending time with her but given how infrequently you are seeing each other and given the fact that she’s still looking online, you feel like you should keep your options open. i am protecting myself from a man who had to answer an email to some woman on a dating site to be respectful. then, one day, out of the blue i decided to see if he was still using the dating site and he was online and chatting with girls. occasionally joke on how we get emails in our personal email accounts saying people are still trying to contact us and we should probably take them down because we feel bad that people are trying to contact us especially when you open an email in your personal account because it shows that you have read the email to the sender even if you haven’t logged on. given how much time we spend together, it’s really difficult for me to make a case against him keeping his online dating profile up if his ridiculousness of a truth is, in fact, a truth at all. and barely said much at all…this past week i got a bad feeling so checked the dating site where we met, and his profile (which wasn’t there a week before) was back up. he said that he is very much excited in seeing and dating me, and already planned on where we would go. i find this truth out many many months after dating when she kept walking up into his house and always there when i came over. if you’ve read a lot of my advice you’ll know that i do see dating one person at a time as problematic. i didn’t realize that by cancelling an account it just meant that your subscription wouldn’t renew, not that your profile wasn’t still active. he is still getting messages from other women on there and i told him that she accidentally hit it (i didn’t even act mad) and he turned it around like it was me and said i was probably snooping (this time i really wasn’t! i only work 5-6 hour days, and then i was back to staying at my place but we were still constantly seeing each other. it’s clear he’s online but not yet dating anyone. i have tried to keep my “option open” by staying on the site – but it just makes me feel bad….’m not sure i follow cathy – did you meet him a long time ago on a dating site but now he’s forgotten?

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he visited me one weekend (stayed in a hotel), i visited him the following weekend (stayed with him), two weekends pass and he came to visit me again this past weekend. we met on a dating site and i knew when we started dating his profile was hidden ( i wanted to show my friends who he was but couldnt find it! guess i’ll be renewing my membership in the site where i’d met him since i did talk to a couple decent men there despite having had little in common with them but, who knows, maybe i’ll get lucky. but he still checks it daily so im kinda confused. i know it sounds petty but he is being petty by saying stuff like that to you and even being on those sites. accidentally discovered that my bf had recently logged into his online dating profile., often online dating doesn’t match the real world and i think that in some cases waiting for the commitment/respect to happen naturally is going to be a frustrating experience. if you think this is annoying i definitely understand but i would still encourage tact when you try to resolve this issue. if he came across the profile of the woman you’re dating and asks you about it, it could get a little weird. lied when he said he added pictures to his profile just to see if i would notice and to see if i was still online. he is now back on the dating website daily again. met him on pof in august 2013 and to be honest, i had just started dating again since my divorce 6 1/2 years earlier. i told him i appreciate his honesty and that if he still wanted to ‘date’ (not spend nights, yada yada) while we both date others, to keep our connection going, i was ok with that. my membership came to an end shortly after we started emailing and i chose not to renew – i’m now off of the site, and he knows this., i find really annoying is when he informs me that he is not cheating on me but why is he still on the dating site. you been dating exclusively for 3 months or have you not had a talk on being exclusive? he probably doesnt even kno that i love him or that i still want a relationship with him cos i try hard to act calm and cool with everything…. he likes you so much, why is he still on dating websites? i guess you could mention to him that your friend told you that she saw his account was still up and you could let him know that you’d feel much better if he hid it. he said he had in the past gone from one serious relationship to another and wants to see what dating around is like. have been dating a guy for 5 weeks, been out 12 times w/a couple of overnights. i have only been dating him 3 weeks, but i don’t want to be with a guy who just wants to string me along so i will wait maximum 6 weeks for him to mention something. me, if a month goes by after you’ve expressed your concerns and he is still refusing to remove his profile then setting ultimatums seems more reasonable. coffee meets bagel coffee meets bagel (cmb) is a free dating service that helps members make meaningful connections. i’m having doubts if he’s still interested but i view his page anonymously and he hasn’t been active for 2 weeks and also removed his pictures.?Recently, i started dating a man i began to realise i really really liked.” today, i emailed him and asked him if he is dating people from the site and that we should both take our sites down and focus on each other.

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i had touched on a similar topic last year in my post my boyfriend has kept his online dating profile active. that’s besides the point really but it’s still true. i love him but he wont commit, using this family thing as an excuse i guess, but then he still is online tlking to random women whilst keeping me in and out of his life? it’s especially bothersome if his actions suggest exclusivity even if he hasn’t declared so in words…and yet it is still acceptable in my mind for him to keep his profile up, even in this case. about a month into dating, i knew i really liked him and wanted to see where it was going to go. have met an army man on an online dating site about 6 weeks ago, and we pretty much hit it off right from the beginning. i’ve been dating this guy for 5 months now, we spend every weekend together. i messaged him on my friends proflie and he answered very nicely that i was pretty and he was still looking for a relationship. im not sure what site i met him on or if he is even on a dating site now. i get that you can view profiles for free… but my thing is that if a person is into you seeing you more than once a week – nine times out of ten you have nothing to worry about… dating more than one person is not something most guys are good at and let’s face it… it is too damn expensive. i saw that his profile was still up, which was a bummer since he said he would take it down and he hadn’t. however, i do worry that the next time he tries dating someone else he might find himself interested in her and then you’ll find yourself alone. he told me “let’s go inside and delete it right now, together” we tried but the site was having an error. when he says he’ll take it down when the time is “right”…well, if you’re dating someone and you keep telling her you’re not going to date anyone else then the right time is now! the time august 2014 (now one year of dating), he was spending every night at my house, we practically lived together, even though he still had his own home. even if a woman had been cheated on, the message would still be “i’d like to commit to dating you”. things are well, but i’m still struggling with it all. can someone, please explain to me what is going on because i see it as one thing and one thing only, i am being deceived in a very cruel way as he is clearly preoccupied with pursuing other women on dating sites. so looks like he pulled one over on me and is still online. all that wasted time waiting for him to make the right choice only to have him start dating someone else. said, if you’ve only been dating for 4 or 5 weeks, i think i’d recommend you just be patient for a while longer. logic aside, i would ask any reader who has this issue the same thing i asked the woman who contacted me: are the two of you exclusive and have you both made it clear that you are only interested in dating each other? in my heart i feel that when a person man/woman is in a serious relationship on line dating sites should be out.***ladies please,i know this is very hard to understand and comprehend and digest, but plain and simple if you have been in a relationship with a guy and it has been over 2 months or so and he has told you that you are exclusive and that he does not want to be with anyone else, yet he still keeps his profile up even after you have confronted him… plain and simple, the guy is not that into you!” i honestly thought i had found that person, especially when he finally agreed to delete his online dating profile. in the begining i didnt have a problem with him still being active on the site cus it was early days, i was still on there too. he says hes not dating/sleeping with anyone else but why is he still online?

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there are some great guys using dating services but sometimes it takes having a good deal of patience to find them. so my question is should i be concern about his profile is still up and he’s still checking it, since i never mention or ask him to take it down. it’s a dilemma that’s more common than you think when online dating turns into an offline relationship. you just never know but i have given up on online dating. i think having the talk on this will clear that up and if he still won’t take his profile down, i think that will be the sign that something is really wrong. i am in my late 40s and was seeing and sleeping with a man in his late 50s who i learned was very active on the dating site we met on. do wonder, how would he react if you had an active dating profile online? instead i think if there is no mention from him after 6 week i would find it easier to just ignore him & move on to dating over guys. the dating expert goes on to say that while there is constant temptation to always be trading up, “the whole point of dating – for most of us, anyway – is to find one person that makes you want to quit altogether. breaking up is the easy solution when you’re operating under the guise of a traditional relationship, but there’s no such thing as traditional when it comes to online dating. if you really want to find out if she’s still using the app, you could ask your friend to reach out and see if she responds but we wouldn’t recommend it. this point i don’t want to even mention to him that i’m aware he’s quite active, especially on match which my sister says allows for various forms of communication with people unlike the site i’d met him on, where his original profile remains active. that or i would just cut him off… the guy i used to see from okc has a new gf supposedly but he is still on there. but i must say his profiles up still really bother me, especially since we have been intimate. so i never talked to him about the dating site but i found out that he isn’t using the site we met on anymore but that he has set up an account for a totally different site and tried to hide that it’s really him so that no one will know. – it sounds like the confusing areas in your relationship might go beyond just the dating profile. second, the idea that he can’t delete his profile because he only logs on from his phone is silly…it take 30 seconds on a computer to remove it. i don’t think that means that you should have concerns that you’re being cheated on, but i do think you should have concerns around “why does he feel that he still needs to be checking his dating profile? we hit it off and are still seeing each other. do with online dating site, so…what had this punk done? on monday he asked if he could see me on tuesday and i told him i wouldn’t mind but i wasn’t getting intimate since i didn’t like the idea of him flirting and dating other women. then in april he tells me he spoke to his 19 year old son who was still living at home but looking for his own place, that the game plan was to be out of his house by june 1st, that is when he would be moving in with me, so his son better get active in finding an apartment. he claims a friend must have hacked his account as a joke and that he still wants stuff to work. do not trust online dating anymore too many bad experiences and too many shady characters. guess i’m concerned because it seems like he logs onto match when we’re both at work. almost everyone who has success with online dating will have some time where they have a subscription but aren’t using it…assuming they meet someone.. and then back to the sex thing he thinks he was going to get some from me but i told him not till “the break is over and the sites are deleted” (this is all texting btw) and he goes “you’re demanding stuff because you said were not going to have sex till i delete match”…ummm duh… i said yes and i have a good point to, that don’t you think?

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he said we are not dating but we couldn’t establish any status quo. i’ve been dating a guy now i met online for almost four months now. dating bloghis dating profile is still active – is he interested or not? having a dating profile doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re looking to stray from your relationship, so make sure you understand the other person’s angle whilst at the same time sharing your own. however there is one problem: his dating profile is still active.!First off let me say that many men keep their profiles active even though they are interested in the woman they are regularly dating. he was dating and sleeping w/ tons of women – that doesn’t really concern me too much, as i can’t say i wasn’t doing a little of the same, and we had not declared exclusivity at that point. he has written a free online dating guide to help others find success with online dating., if my wife told me that she put an online dating profile up because she was a pisces…that wouldn’t fly with me! however, i know has has a dating profile because a few weeks after we started dating my friend who uses the site told me she saw a profile for him. still he kept his profile up as “single” so i did too.’ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months but he continues to be active on dating sites. his response was “that the site is for friends, just like facebook” i said him he has got to be kidding because it is a dating site not a friend site and what would he do when girls want to meet him?’ve been dating the same guy for 4 months and today i asked him where i stand and he is not answering me back is he hiding something from me. had not been looking at emails that came from his dating site, let along responding to them. his status updating from:“interested in meeting women for dates”. would then suggest that if things are still going well between the two of you in a few weeks that you let him know that you would like to be girlfriend/boyfriend and see what his response is. i feel like i’m just there and he is still looking for something better and it makes me feel bad. i think it’s more likely he still wants attention or that he’s lying (unfortunately). how many girls he’d been with sexually and not: not many, and if he was dating anyone else: no, and if he was what i like to call a serial dater, dating many at once. finally i asked him if he has talked to anyone on the site, and that’s when he got really angry that i don’t trust him. i told him again that it makes me feel as though i can’t trust him if his profile is still visible because that means he is still single. yet my gut says there is something not right about his profile being up still. i also told him that we agreed to be exclusive and that having an active profile tells other women that he is still single and it is disrespectful and unacceptable to me. anyway, i wasn’t worried about the profile as we were only a few weeks into dating so i had just forgotten about it. so it’s been three weeks now since we agreed to be exclusive but he still have his profile up and checking it. it does make it harder him living in london and myself in suffolk as we don’t have what i would call a normal dating relationship which does make it harder.

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i still think that’s a fine thing to do but more recently i’ve found myself encouraging women to be a bit more pro-active or aggressive (whereas changing your photo is rather passive-aggressive). i met someone online a year ago and we started dating six months ago. he totally denied that he was on the site and could not see how the picture got on it.! now i’m really starting to panic – so without hesitation and with some authority, i look him straight in the eyes and tell him in front of everyone – ‘that is not a for sure thing yet, as we still have not talked about the details’. i stopped answering and next time i saw him i asked him if he was still on the site and he answered and said: “yes im still on there and actually last week someone messaged me on there, and i’m pretty sure it was you. coffee meets bagel (cmb): cmb is a dating app designed with women in mind. was dating a girl pretty regularly, seems like it was a fwb situation, but they both clearly felt more for each other and wanted more, but couldn’t seem to make the situation work for their lives at that point yet. the site was deleted and i never heard anything else about it. it’s actually really common to leave a dating profile live on a site or app even if you’re seeing someone or not actively online dating. i messaged a guy on a dating site and we texted for weeks before finally meeting up. obviously the profile is not “just there” and obviously its not there for his friend’s use because he is putting up pics of himself and updating his own info. dating is not always what it seems, especially when the boyfriend you met online still browses through dating profiles like email and Facebook. i’d say that long of “exclusive” dating should be long enough for someone to know if they’re ready for that step. anyways, we still met up and spoke very very regularly over the next 6 months. i think for now, you might want to hide your profile in the off chance that he’s keeping his profile up because he still sees yours is up. he can get you a hotel room and take you on a road trip but logging into a website and removing his profile is beyond his time and resources? whether he’s just checking until it expires or he renewed after he showed me the cancellation it still means he clearly isn’t that into me. so as that sixth week approaches, i think it would be best if you let him know that you’re bothered by his profile still being up and see how he responds. have been dating this guy i met on okcupid for a few months now. he said he was extremely hurt as well and he still cares for me a lot, but wants to take it slow. you can’t bring yourself to be more aggressive about the situation in person, one thing you could try is to also create a profile on the site (if he’s using a free one).’ve been talking with a man i met on a dating site for a couple of months now. i still believe what i wrote there, i’m finding that many of the women who are contacting me are not at the point where they are sure if the man is their “boyfriend” or not. to be honest the site was for marriage purpose, i have been in there for some time and gave up hope. we have gone on trips, and had wonderful dates, he told me i’m just the girl he’s dating. i think doing this can be beneficial because a) you might find a great guy who does want to commit or b) he might realize how much it sucks to have the person you’re dating to be open to dating other people. we met on a dating site and were surprised to find that even though we live in a small town we had never met.

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’ve been dating a guy i met online for almost six months, but he won’t delete his online dating profile. a month ago, i complained about his dating profile still being active. tell him if he’s going to continue posting that he is single and updating his site, that you are too and you are also going to start seeing other people. if after a week his is still up, you could try dropping hints: maybe mention that you took your profile down or talk about how you enjoy spending time with him. occasionally joke on how we get emails in our personal email accounts saying people are still trying to contact us and we should probably take them down because we feel bad that people are trying to contact us especially when you open an email in your personal account because it shows that you have read the email to the sender even if you haven’t logged on. i have a question, i have been dating a guy that i was introduced to by my sister. – i’m guessing here but if i were going to tell a woman i was dating that i had taken down my profile, it would normally be because i would be hinting to her that i want to date each other exclusively. any other girl came to me with the same dilemma, i’d tell her the exact same thing dating expert evan marc katz would say. am just so scarred to bring my feelings or the site thing up……. in general, he was never pushy or anything, but the opposite, and i got the impression of him as being a nice and honest guy. you can learn more about his personal experience using online dating and running this website here., if you really want the person you’re with to delete his dating profile and  he refuses, then it’s time to reconsidering whether he’s the type of person you want to have a real relationship with. we have yet to have a real exclusivity talk and have not talked about our dating profiles. have been dating this guy i met from online for about 3 months now, everything was amazing in the beginning. in the article above i recommended that you update your profile to show him you’re still active. all that being said, i do have some family issues in my life, i have a brother who has a drug/alcohol problem who is always getting in trouble that i have to look out for, my mother passed away 5 years ago but it still feels like yesterday. 3 months in is when i saw he was still logging in……it upset me…. am thinking of giving him a few weeks and see what happens but at the same time i am concerned as well and confused as to why his profile is still active and he often logs on. founded by 3 sisters in 2012 in nyc, cmb aims to deliver a fun, safe, and quality dating experience that results in meaningful relationships. and no a guy views dating so differently to us that it can only be expected that removing his profile is repeatedly a delayed occurrence. i meet this guy on a dating site 3 months ago and we do have feelings for each other. i confronted him about it and said that it bothers me that you still have your profile up on match. i was able to get a hold of his phone last week and saw that he had the dating site application on it. after almost 4 months, i was really falling for him, and had stopped dating other guys after month 3. i know that when you are dating you should do this but i just can’t and he said he was the same. i in your situation, i would make it clear to whomever i was dating that absolute commitment was of the utmost importance to me.!2 days ago i checked to see if he had taken his pof profile down (along with another one i had found several months ago – sexsearch dating site).

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