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” many of the songs on the radio by black artists seemed to put emphasis on parts of the body that i was lacking. on the intelligence levels of blacks in america and around the world:• blacks have an average iq of just 85, while white people have an average iq of 100. where i'm from, "mudsharks" don't just throw themselves at and literally physically fight over black guys, they have to be the biggest, blackest guys they can find. if you're petty enough to give someone shit for saying "axe" and not "ask", then i would advise you to "axe" someone who loves you dearly to take an actual axe to your jugular. melanie killen, says parents of both white and black kids have a lot of anxiety about the prospect of interracial dating. it's logical the father doesn't want the daughter to mix with the generic. my main bullet point is my blackness isn't something to be questioned, i know my history, still eat oxtail soup and mannish water and keep a machete near the bed. even then there is a marked difference between black and white iq scores, not only in america but internationally as well. i will say a lot of the black guys, though smaller, can jump through the roof. black seventh grader who participated in the study, 13-year-old chantay, admitted she, and others in her extended family, had a double standard regarding interracial dating. white men have become too feminized and only black men are left to carry the masculine torch. a young man that we knew, and that we liked a lot and it wasn't that we didn't so much want them dating because of race per se. white girl actually told an indian friend of mine (she was his plate) that she wants to be man-handled and thrown around by a big black guy. course i wasn't thinking that as a teenager but that's probably one of the main reasons i stay away from black women (trust me."chantay's mother christal says she'd support her children dating any race but thinks her daughter's issue reveals concerns about whether black men view black women as inferior. "i think when she speaks about if her brother were to bring home a white girl, what it says i think to our kids, our black kids, is, 'are we not good enough for our black brothers? you want money get some middle aged white guy who cant get sex from his wife who has a high income from his office job. black guys who program computers have started hitting the weights and changing their looks. yep, whites can split after fathering a child or commit a felony just a lot less likely than a black guy. if you marry a black girl, you're connected to their family now," he said, adding, "and who knows what her family is really like? i like the idea of improving and dating younger women. my experience is that, most of the blacks i meet, even african blacks, new to america are all more middle class and mainstream than i ever was. he could be a great guy don't get me wrong, some men of all ethnicities are but often times when a white woman is attracted to black men they like to go for the scummy ones a lot of the time for some reason. is not a uniquely white thing, i'm hispanic and my family would give me shit if i ever dated a black. watchparents and kids on interracial dating 02:44story highlightswhite seventh grade boy thinks his parents would not support him if he dated a black girlblack seventh grade boy's parents fear he dislikes his race because he dates white girls ac360° study finds the problem is not racial, it's generationalluke, a white seventh grader, believes his parents would not be supportive if he dated an african-american girl. gold[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 8 months ago (9 children)i'm black who went to college and all that and i wouldn't say that is completely the case. white women don't get mad if a white guy dates a black girl. point is, if i was a white girl living in la and looking around at all the soft, pasty white guys waddling around, with their ridiculous man buns and feminsit / sjw causes and all the rest of it, clearly attempting to pull off their covert contracts, and then a good looking black dude rolled up and, with blazing confidence, came out and said "hey, you're fine, let's go back to my place. i'm well aware that whites and other non-black so-called 'minorities' seem to treat anti-blackness as a sort of ego boost, but the fact of the matter that none of you seem to get is that the feeling is mutual and reciprocated often. being, the same reasons most hookers dont accept black customers. nearly as much as white women do to stay with theirs, just look at this thread, being called mudsharks even if they date an educated and classy black dude over some tobacco chewing redneck that can't finish a sentence, please! a black man who's dated his share of white girls since I was a teenager, I caught heat on both ends. on the family dynamics and education achievement of blacks in america:• 73% of black babies are born out of wedlock. usually on reddit or even youtube comments i see a lot of white guys call white girls nasty for dating black men and how they would never date a girl that's been with black guys. my mother gives me shit about why am i not dating a jewish girl, and i can't actually tell her that it's because i see the broken spirit and utter depression in my father's eyes from all their years married. you won't become a leper in the white community because you prefer dating white women who date only white guys, lol.• as of 2008, young black men kill 7 times more often than young white men.-- all the white guys are becoming more and more girl-ish with each passing day. the men who didn't want their daughters to create mulattos, only used hard power. gold[–]blackedoutfast 13 points14 points15 points 8 months ago (2 children)fair enough. or to paraphrase chris rock: black people are more racist than white people because black people hate black people too; everything white people don't like about black people, black people really don't like about black people. i don't like wf/bm dating for the same reason i don't like 40% female obesity rates. while black guys undoubtedly get hate for it, the hate is even worse and out in the open when the guy is of other minority groups like asian, hispanic (non-white), and any kind of brown (especially these days with what has been going on in the news). wanna know how many black parents i saw doing that?[–]blackedoutfast 1 point2 points3 points 8 months ago (2 children)most non-white women are under a lot of pressure stay within their own race. if a girl is already high-smv within her race, she won't need to rely on cross-racial fetishization to get a guy with decent smv. goldload more comments (3 replies)[–]raisins3142 6 points7 points8 points 8 months ago* (21 children)the largest, most muscular, and most masculine men are more likely to be black than white, it seems to me. when their daughters bring home black men who share their same value system, they tend to be far more accepting of the racial difference than white liberals.
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your people can't even go over to spain, the country that colonized your countries, and be treated as equals. it s all cool if she gets knocked up by a white dude, you just don t want that big black dick in her. goldload more comments (2 replies)[–]chris_sydney 23 points24 points25 points 8 months ago (23 children)op, there's your answer right there. could black people have "less intelligence" because schools get absolute pittance for funding in black communities? there's a reason why white women who exclusively date black men are always fat pieces of garbage who resemble fruitbats. loyalty aside, black men are objectively a bad deal for white girls, therefore white fathers are perfectly rational to pressure their daughters to avoid them.[–]blackedoutfast 4 points5 points6 points 8 months ago (9 children)yeah i've seen plenty of hot white chicks with black dudes, but op's question was specifically asking about why white fathers don't like black men dating their white daughters, and that's generally more of an issue in the red/conservative parts of the usa. black man can have a high smv and still pull a white women with a high smv because he is in the top 20%, with race having nothing to do with it. he's comparing white iq to black iq when whites have 13x the wealth of blacks in the us (for a number of reasons that are better left unsaid). and if you look at white women with black men, there's always a story. you just can't rationalize in your head that it isn't always a "fetishization" and you're hamstering that the only way a white woman can be attracted to a black male is because she has a "thing" for black dudes. if a black dude has a cosmopolitan cultural upbringing and can speak the language and afford the lifestyle, the racism level drops immensely. if he was white , even a bad boy and you knew it, your reaction would have been less aggressive. one cares if a white guy dates a pretty latina but if a latino dates a pretty blonde, everyone loses their minds.' low iq scores is linked to their criminality:• the average american criminal has an iq 85, which is the exact same iq score as the average black. to them, black men were filthy and diseased, which could only mean one thing: i was too. but if my brother were to bring home a white girl, there's definitely going to be some you know controversy," she said, adding, "i think its more of a problem for people when a black man brings home a white woman because it's been like that for years. it just so happens most of those women i've dated were not black. you have an open kitchen in your household where your kids and eat whenever they want or do you monitor when and what they eat? i wish more white men would just keep it 100 on interracial dating not try to placate niggas with the "culture disconnect" bs. we can't reverse half white / half black back into white again. your own question:Is it ok for your spouse to constantly go through your phone ? have been talking to this guy and he's extremely nice, goes to the same college i do, and is a dean's list student (which is even better than i do). know too many bright and cultured successful black men who have chuckled at the idea of outright racism to think that racism exists because of color. all of a sudden, she has been secretly texting (she has no phone) from her new friends phone, she has black guys that look like grown men sexting her & sending nudes. what they do is go way overboard to try and be more black to make up for their inner feelings of not being black enough. i'm black, jamaican, and have picked up woman at the fucking symphony orchestra. the end of the day i don't care and interracial dating will always ruffle feathers. if your white, you sound like a self hating white man. where friends from home had laughed in my face, believing my taste in guys had somehow done a 180 as a result of moving to the city, black guys i currently went to school with were intrigued., after over a decade of large black men she dated a regular white guy for 6 months and married him. black sudanese are cursed and spat on in the streets by jews. a guy fucking a woman who is better looking than him is an accomplishment to a certain extent, given how many other guys she could have chosen over you. also, whites are more likely to work white collar jobs compared to blacks who are more likely to work blue collar jobs."jimmy, a black seventh grader, recounted that after he had several white girlfriends, his parents seemed to interpret it as an affront to his own race. · 205 comments the consequences of men failing society wide shit tests13 · 13 comments for my trp brothers who are current pursuing/prospecting an arab hb-whatever:82 · 58 comments the internal strengthening of frame through martial arts77 · 10 comments be the source of your own joy63 · 83 comments the assault on humor350 · 200 comments having a few slut friends have shown me how women can experience the entire spectrum of dating (simultaneously with multiple men), with complete control, frame and ease. you don't get to rig the system in your favor and then poke fun at people you rigged the system against for not being as good as you. i'm a pretty manly white guy (i hope) but even i am finding it harder and harder to muster up any attraction for most white girls these days.)submitted 8 months ago by donovan_sharpeas a black man who's dated his share of white girls since i was a teenager, i caught heat on both ends..internationalconfirmfacebooktwitterinstagraminterracial dating exposes divide between teens and parentsby chuck hadad, cnn updated 9:59 am et, thu april 5, 2012 chat with us in facebook messenger. flo rida’s “can’t believe it” flowed through party speakers with its lyrics “damn that white girl got some a** i don’t believe it” and “black girl got some a** it ain’t no secret”, taking me back to feelings of insecurity i started having as a little kid. you believe your intellectual property has been infringed and would like to file a complaint, please see our copyright/ip policy. you give up your engagement ring/wedding ring to save your child's life? demographic that gave me and still gives me the most shit for dating white women are black women. if you're a little bitch you'll get treated like one but if your a real man then you'll get treated like one. gold[–]maniclurker 4 points5 points6 points 8 months ago (1 child)really, the best you can do as a father, is teach your daughter how to be high value, so that she can attract a high value man. i just want what is best for my daughter and in our city you see a lot of single moms with half black kids. goldload more comments (1 reply)[–]bendz57 2 points3 points4 points 8 months ago (0 children)my buddy has been dating his girlfriend for 3 years.
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the problem is he's half black and my dad had a coniption fit when i said we went to dinner. being said whenever ive been to a girls yard and their dads been home they've all treated me with respect apart from 1 but i don't blame the man tbh, just look at how us black and mixed race boys treat white girls, for some reason they love it. every time someone mentions "black dude something", they come with the same biased researches and extrapolating conclusions about genetics they don't even understand, even the same broken links. so it's always funny seeing hispanics who hate black people yet, kiss the ass of whites." self hating blacks and negro bed wenches are seriously abundant in our community. up in new hampshire didn’t prevent me from making friends or dating guys who weren’t white. he advised me growing up that jewish women are crazy, and after dating a couple of them, i think he's right. goldload more comments (2 replies)[–]aboutarookie 4 points5 points6 points 8 months ago (0 children)weird racist mind, idk if your white or black.• in 2012, the mean sat critical reading score for college accepted students was 428 for blacks and 527 for whites. white women are not trying to be ostracized over black men. i just want what is best for my daughter and in our city you see a lot of single moms with half black kids. whites are and have already been a global minority, so when you have a bunch of white women sleeping and procreating with blacks, it obviously doesn't fare well for the longevity of the race. this actually has a side effect of damning scrawnier blacks to low smv, because women seeking black men are looking for a very specific stereotype they've seen played up on tv. i am the oldest of my siblings, i listened to their advice and didn't get involved with black chicks. goldload more comments (1 reply)[–]7sm 5 points6 points7 points 8 months ago (0 children)your own stereotypical observation of your mother "if this is what all black women are like". is no race that will generally be okay with mixing with blacks, and i've only touched upon their aesthetics, when you get into their nature, that opens a can of worms. go to a gym downtown where a big part of the city's democratic is black. but not every black person is like what you described above.[–]maniclurker 3 points4 points5 points 8 months ago (1 child)wait, how do you use it as your own shit test? black children adopted by white parents averaged 89 on iq tests at age 17 (slightly better than the 85 average for blacks nationally).'s not an accomplishment when a woman fucks a guy.) black men, however, because their masculine energy is more "pumped up" (from all of the above) find more attraction with white girls, and of course this is a 2-way street. i know my daughter could get pregnant with any race, and i tell her that abstinence is.[–]maniclurker 11 points12 points13 points 8 months ago (8 children)it's not just a black problem. i just want my dad to explain his views and to see what other people think of me dating a great black man.• gonorrhea rates are 30 times higher in blacks than in whites. source: how black and white students in public schools perform on the national assessment of educational progress. goldload more comments (2 replies)[–]ppvknifefight 5 points6 points7 points 8 months ago (0 children)here's a secret : black women who are "naggy and angry" are only like that to pussy niggas. gold[–]throwaway09213 22 points23 points24 points 8 months ago (14 children)i feel like in american society, there is this underlying double standard when it comes to interracial relationships, regardless of a guy's smv or value. he seems nice enough, but i know how black guys that date white girls are.'m in canada; but i noticed 90% of the backpage ads say 'no black men'. i began receiving attention from darker skinned guys, one even proclaiming with a wink that he had “never had a white girl before” as if conquering a white girl is some badge of honor or just something to check off a list. add these two instincts together and you get men - not just white men btw this happens in every race/country around the world - who guard and shame their women for dating outside the tribe(dating outside your tribe in muslim and african countries can even get women killed). academics have to say about black intelligence in their own words:From the peer-reviewed paper the totality of available evidence shows the race iq gap still remains:The average iq for african americans was lower than those for latino, white, asian, and jewish americans (85, 89, 103, 106, and 113, respectively. tell me that happens among blacks when they engage in their racism? an AC360° study on children and race, many students reported discouragement of interracial dating from their parents, or those of their friends. she met a black girl last year at school that she hung with for a while. we who are lucky enough to elevate ourselves to "chad" status through lifting and trp just go full blown psycho dark triad and start cucking everybody, impregnating as many white american girls as possible, and deal with the consequences later? “you have no a**, erica” one guy commented at one of these parties as ll cool j’s “big ole butt” blasted through speakers, while another told me he was willing to deal with my lack of a chest because i had “an a** like a dancer..The white-black gap in sat scores, a proxy for iq, is increasing. blacks with grad degrees still speak that way and wonder why they have trouble advancing their careers. if your black, you sound like you think white men are below you. goldload more comments (2 replies)[–]useyourmouth 16 points17 points18 points 8 months ago (9 children)92% of biracial kids with black fathers are born out of wedlock. goldload more comments (3 replies)load more comments (1 reply)load more comments (21 replies)load more comments (5 replies)[–]umbrifer 53 points54 points55 points 8 months ago (20 children)can confirm, am black and dated white girls all through high-school (you have no idea how hard it is to find a black person in switzerland 15 years ago). wife died when our daughter was still in diapers, and it's stressful enough to raise her alone without a grandchild as well. every black guy who walks in (which is every guy) walks right up to her and says "you ever been with a black man before? have to ask, with so many different colors between white and black, why would a white woman go for the most extreme when people in general tend to gravitate towards people who look similar to them and their family?-- now that women are up front about their alpha fucks requirements, they have no shame in saying, out loud, "black men have bigger muscles and bigger dicks, that's what i want, that's what i'm going for.
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” i began to feel that i could never live up to stereotypical "black standards" and that my body type would only be appealing to white men. your parents about your new boyfriend is hard enough when his skin is the same color as yours, but it becomes even more difficult when he is at the opposite end of the color spectrum as you. all it took was one semester for me to breakup with my high school boyfriend and fall completely in love with a guy from my dorm. gold[–]wewuzgoyim 11 points12 points13 points 8 months ago (0 children)this isn't meant for the left, it's meant for the phaggots who think race mixing isn't degenerate, and for all the blacks who date whites and vice versa. had a white guy tell me he was more black than me and i almost slapped him silly lol. i'd say it's made me more terse with black chicks but this is the red pill. her dating a black, white or other race could complicate things as far as families and religious views, poitics etc.• blacks are more likely to have a gene that causes violence. not only envy is seen from those posts, but also a form of oneitis too, as they simply can't accept some women, specially those they love, as bp man, prefer the black alpha man. she ended the relationship out of the blue, and found herself some skinny white guy. because you are an example of why she can't find a man [less men on market], jealousy, out of social convention [women are followers], sleeping wifh the enemy [youth/old, black/white]. young boys want to become rappers or athletes, because girls want those guys. isn't my favorite genre of music and this makes a lot of black women call me "whitey". the peer-reviewed paper thirty years of research on race differences in cognitive ability:The iq gap between blacks and whites in the united states—15-17 points—has not changed since it was first measured nearly a century ago. even if guy she's dating doesn't commit one, he would almost certainly be related to or hang around felons. we could be talking about the same rap video or smoking weed or commiserating after getting shot down by the same chick and guys would shoot out that i talk too white. i don't think it would work with more than one guy, so don't try your luck doing it with her next boyfriend too. goldload more comments (2 replies)load more comments (14 replies)[–]abdada 14 points15 points16 points 8 months ago (5 children)i doubt it was even about race 20 years ago but the cultural phenomenon of poor blackness as espoused by black celebrities is almost hilarious. media creates a myth of black supremacy and you cucks all buy into it. think that is where a lot of the smv loss comes from when someone has black men in their past, a fear of being the obvious beta bux in their own eyes and that of society too. look at it from their point of view, all they want is for their daughter to date a nice guy who is going to protect and take care of her needs, now look at "black" or hiphop culture which essentially treats women the opposite of that. "when you see your kid always steering towards a different race, you want to make sure that he doesn't have a problem with his own race . children raised in white households have similar iqs to black children in black households.'ve been reading down through the posts, hoping someone would hit on a likely reason that a black man would be interested in a white woman: in most cases, they are just more suitable to partner with. have laid eyes on many attractive black females in my years. think the shaming is worse on black dudes with white girls. guess black guys who prefer white women don't realize that nearly every single white man also prefers women of his own race. it's actually one of the (many) reasons that black kids were and still are overrepresented in special needs classes in some states. watchrace relations through a child's eyes 09:29anderson cooper and soledad o'brien interviewed a panel of parents whose children participated in the ac360° study and were vocal about the issue of interracial dating. in your ivory tower, not dealing with racism, slavery, economic troubles, lack of resources, lack of education, being disproportionately targeted for the prison industrial complex for hundreds of years, claiming "racial superiority" is absolutely pathetic. “they’re riddled with sexually transmitted diseases” one ignorant guy messaged me on tinder after seeing a single picture of me with black guys on my profile. find funny how they always begin their texts saying that black men are "stealing" white women from them. so why would you as a black man use that word to describe women who sleep with you? in a primarily non-black population like most of the west, a mixed person looks black.'s funny how america is okay with minorities moving up the social ladder in terms of wealth and economic prosperity but is even more strict towards them dating white women than most european countries are. it struck a nerve because i've always spoken with proper diction and grammar and always had my blackness questioned because of it.% black men in the entire state of new hampshire, i never had much of an option (census bureau, 2014).-- black men naturally (i believe) have more of a masculine presence than white men. gold[–]shavedapel 2 points3 points4 points 5 months ago (0 children)it's because alot of black guys are ghetto and terrible customers who want deals and refunds if there not happy.. i don't find them overly masculine for the most part and you don't have to worry about them being shrilly or naggy unless you aren't up on your own shit and have iron hard frame. fathers dont want their daughters going with black men for multiple reasons. i voted for obama, and i have lots of black friends. you can deny it all you want but there are a lot more black deadbeat dads than white deadbeat dads. there are still some white daughters who refuse to date outside of their race (unless they're asian) due to fear from their parents, even if they are wealthy. this is a shitty pill to swallow, but i hope its one that can push you to stick to your own kind. i discourage inter racial dating simply because we are rich in culture and like to pass it down through the generations. most blacks are fat (almost 50% obesity rate), many are scrawny, but the ones people see most often in the media are athletes or otherwise high smv.[–]ppvknifefight 3 points4 points5 points 8 months ago (2 children)here's the deal.