I met my husband on a dating site

I met my boyfriend on a dating site

gold[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children)my wife and i met as a by-product of someone else's online dating. was fantastic for my voyeuristic side, but the messages i received on there were nothing but terrifying. he told his parents but since mine were so strict i lied and said we met through a mutual friend at school and i was going to meet him. gold[–]i_voted_kinky 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my husband and i met on craigslist on the casual encounter portion. we weren't flirting at all either but she looked kind of bored once my roommate made it clear that he was giving up so i offered her a drink and she accepted it, then we all left for the bar shortly after. key point about my internet personals profile was that i didn't write, "i don't want a smoker. gold[–]popdisaster00 19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (2 children)my wife and i actually met on myspace back in 2005. so we were on the same campus at the same time and possibly even had classes together, though we hadn't met prior to the date we set up online. gold[–]ridemonkeyride 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my girlfriend through okcupid in the fall of 2012. when we finally meet her, he says he met her through 'a friend'. i shouldn't have been as surprised/hurt as i was given the website we met on, but it's been a particularly devastating split. we'd never met until that night but it was clear after a couple hours that she and my roommate weren't hitting it off. i only talked to him because he had made out with my bff in her pool earlier that year and in my mind, that made him not a stranger and therefore, he could not kill me with impunity. i didn't see a picture of her until the night before i met her for the first time (three weeks after we first started talking). i met mine through facebook (he randomly sent me a friend request some months before we ever actually made contact with each other." i asked her if her family was local because my grandfather is well known in our city and it's not uncommon for me to know people randomly because of that. we met up after a couple failed attempts, and have been somewhat inseparable since then. it wasn't love at first site - his photo he sent looked straight out of the 70s. whoooa" everyone we talk to thinks its actually pretty cool that we met and fell in love with the help of eharmony. i was supposed to go to a party and, instead, i continued my yearly tradition of being horrendously, horrifically sick, so i was home. happened, though, was that a man wrote to answer my craigslist ad, i spent one week talking to him online, we met in person, got engaged two weeks later, and were married in three months. even after finding concrete evidence of his cheating on a trip out to visit him, i ignored my gut and my instincts, hoping his insistence that he didn't cheat on me was true. my mom was nervous at the time(2006) about meeting people from the internet so i told her i met him through mutual friends. of course, we weren't going to tell anyone how we really met, so we agreed to tell everyone that we met at a bar when he was home in dc that april and that's how it all started. i just say we met randomly, talked a bunch and hung out as friends first. i wasn't even considering dating after i dumped him a few weeks later, but for some reason i really clicked with him. gold[–]leahlaughsalot 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago* (1 child)my boyfriend and i met through plenty of fish. i just state a fact like, "we met in a coffee shop. gold[–]veryspecialone 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met an ex on okcupid. hence, it did not exactly pop into my mind as the path to meeting my hubby. gold[–]ceeflores 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)my boyfriend and i met on a site called omegle. bad internet dating is not really "fashionable" in my country. revolvershare on twittershare on googlei have always been an advocate of online dating. back to my computer to find a few aim messages waiting for me and she changed her aim away message to basically be an aim booty call directed at me. expert advice--self-appointed dating experts and researchers admit that great relationships do not correlate with long courtships. gold[–]shitsngiggles2 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my boyfriend on okcupid. i meet my twin, my soul mate, and the love of my life on craigslist. gold[–]thebodisatfa 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (4 children)my girlfriend and i used to say we met at a nuts 4 nuts stand in nyc rather than saying we met on okcupid. so we decided to say that we met through mutual friends from school. "nowadays, you don't have to be embarrassed about dating sites!

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some talking she said she wanted to come visit my city, so i offered to host (obviously). wrote my own profile, but had my friends read it to make sure it 1) didn’t have spelling errors and 2) sounded like me. the other hand, i know my boyfriend doesn't care nearly as much as i do. comments on "i never thought i’d meet my husband on a dating site, but i did". i'm not some sort of online dating mastermind or addict; i just happened to meet someone i really like through it. gold[–]kaylani 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)my husband and i met on myspace in early 2009. for some of my friends have been on hundreds of first dates, they have said it gets quite repetitive, and after awhile, the last thing you want to do is field the same boring questions about your siblings. when he introduced me to his friends and roommates he told them that we met at a taco restaurant and ordered the same fish tacos and pumpkin beer. my wife is from ma and so we made up a story that we met on an airplane flying back from boston to chicago. since that involved 3 old school social media/internet related sites it was extra embarrassing. gold[–]amylucille 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my fiancé and i met on an online game called dark legends. texting that night we were doing the usual small talk until she said, "unless you have an identical twin who also works for (name of paratransit bus company i work for) i think we have met before. gold[–]_40daydream 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)not me, but my mom and stepdad met on eharmony and while i know, my stepsiblings do not, so they tell everyone they met through "dr. it's been almost 4 years and my family still does not know. gold[–]tourou 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i have been dating my current girlfriend for 6 months who i met on okcupid. we chatted every day for a few months before we finally met in person, two weeks before he had a one-way ticket to the uk booked. gold[–]droste_efx 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children)my boyfriend and i met on okcupid. but with some people, particularly older relatives, its hard enough to even explain online dating, or get them to accept it, let alone something as arbitrary as 'oh its just this website ten years ago where we pirated movies and played tetris and talked about farts and we started hanging out there and now we're getting married in real life' (edit: we are actually getting married in july, that part wasnt a joke). gold[–]browneyegrl1196 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my current boyfriend on okcupid. i haven't told my parents how we met but his family knows. i told everyone that i met him in the elevator at my work. gold[–]chocklatesoop 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)we met as friends on an mmorpg in 2005. gold[–]missv46 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my boyfriend on craig's list. so, when we found out that this guy i went to college with and had spoken to, maybe twice in 3 years of school, vaguely knew my boyfriend from community college, we made up a story about how the guy was such a good friend to both of us that he set us up through facebook. but there were some good, my-kind-of-guys who were my age, too. am a perfectionist, and my husband and i were an 87% match – as my husband likes to say, he’s a b+ student. my family is a somewhat conservative family and figured i would meet someone at work or at a bar or in some other traditional way. gold[–]crypretty 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (2 children)my boyfriend and i met on okcupid, but he had apparently been telling people we met at a certain bar and didn't bring me up to speed, so when his dad asked me where we had met again, and i responded with the truth, he had some slightly embarrassing backtracking to do. you think it was at this point that i explored online dating, then you’re wrong. i fell in love with my husband online, that was 12 years ago. i had left a disabling “relationship,” gotten myself together (or so i thought), and was dating a good man. a couple of my favorites include: a) we were both black ops operatives in uzbekistan and fell in love as the town we were in was under siege by terrorists b) she fell in the street on her bicycle and i ran into traffic to swoop her to safety, but as i did that, our parents unwittingly crashed into each other because they were driving in the area and were distracted by my heroics c) we were both hitmen who were contracted to kill each other. he ended up spending a few more nights coming over to my place while he was in town but we never really discussed much about logistics for afterwards. gold[–]hpard 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)i dated a guy i met on okcupid and was, at the time, totally embarrassed to admit it to people. gold[–]heyheymse 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)we met online and i think there was initially the thought that we wouldn't tell anyone we met that way - at the time i was a teacher and he was a substitute teacher, but at separate schools, so one thing we'd do is state the facts of what we were doing at the time and let people draw their own conclusions:"how'd you guys meet? i guess its because craigslist list seems like like the last stop before using a prison personal site. but i just recently celebrated my 3 year anniversary with my boyfriend and we met on plenty of fish. gold[–]rossthebossc 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)oh ya, me and my girlfriend met in an aol chat room once upon a time. we tried doing that for awhile, but after finally "fessing up" to how we met a couple of times and not getting crazy reactions (at least to our faces. after a few years of trying out the "biggest and best" internet personals sites, i decided to throw in the towel.

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    i kind of realized that people are responding to my energy on the story anyways, so i keep it realll. all my friends know how we really met but a pretty large portion of his friends and family think we met through mutual friends at his community college. i checked out most of the people out of curiosity, and noticed that there was a girl from my state (a pretty small one, so it wasn't common). i thought our first phone call was awful – my husband kept giving me short answers. by the time i was nearing 27, i had broken up with my boyfriend of a year, realized all my friends were now in relationships, and anyone i was meeting at a bar i didn’t want to date long term (like the accountant from switzerland who had no clue if he was going to stay forever in the us…or a hedge fund guy who was nice but the thought of kissing him grossed me out). gold[–]peppii 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my husband off of okcupid in 2007 and had done online dating a bunch before meeting him. gold[–]misseff 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my ex boyfriend in a harry potter roleplay chat on aol when i was 14, i think we were both there to troll rpers(we were both obnoxious). gold[–]withrecklessabandon 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children)i met my boyfriend on reddit. flew out to la with my mom and in order for this whole plan to work i lied to her and told her i met her at the camp i worked at over the summer. when we went to check out he told the clerk that we had just met and he was going to take me out to dinner. i randomly downloaded the game onto my phone and he was the first person i started talking to.. oops) called his phone from my phone, then called everyday until i went on a date with him. gold[–]marxistglue 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my girlfriend and i met on okc and although we aren't really embarrassed about meeting online, we decided to make it a game that every time someone asks us how we met, we take turns making up an elaborate story. so we just told people we met at a show i played up there. we were myspace friends for a couple of months before meeting." then took my phone (where i had really been texting friends not really washing the windows. we tell certain people we met through a mutual friend (who i actually didn't know until after meeting her). i was, apparently, the only other person from our hometown online that night so we struck up a conversation. since we can't really tell ppl that story, we just say we met at the golf course. i met my fiance on plenty of fish for crying out loud! i was so embarassed about the way we met that i used to tell people that i just met him when i went to visit my best friend at the time at college.[–]cassieee 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)so my boyfriend and i met on okcupid however i'm a huge asshole and even though we got along really well via texting/fb im'ing, i would freak out whenever we actually started to make plans and i'd sketch out. i was cleaning windows in the entry way and he walked up behind me put his man parts on my bottom and pushed them into me, and followed up with " you like when i come up from behind you. i was 17 at the time so i knew no one would understand and they would all assume i was looking for someone online (i wasn't, i was just bored and we happened to just click), so my decoy story to my family was that i was at a get together with old friends from middle school in ca and i met him there. then friended me on myspace a year or so later..At first i would tell people we met at a bar or through mutual friends. i'd hoped to spend about a year dating various candidates and then, if i was lucky, it would work out with one of them in twelve months, more or less. about a year later, we met in person and really clicked. because if i don't, people always snicker at me and say, "well, you did meet on a dating site. gold[–]tzivje 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my so and i met over facebook. gold[–]varlotte 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children)met my boyfriend because he was internet famous on vice for a hot minute three years ago. gold[–]mashleyaddison 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my girlfriend on ashley madison. gold[–]katlaz 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my ex-boyfriend on mystery google. gold[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my boyfriend and i met on okcupid 2 years ago. it would be different if it had been a different dating site but it's tinder sooo. when we first started dating i told him that while i didn't want to lie to people about how we met, i did want to try and dodge the question. gold[–]mlm924 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my boyfriend on a train. she told her friends we met at her work which is at the central library in our city. gold[–]artmaid 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i'm currently in a long distance marriage (awaiting visa) and am asked about how i met my husband all the time since it's such a peculiar situation. i told people we met at a bar if they asked.
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    there's something really weird about saying we met on myspace - it's different than saying we met on match or something like that. previously i dated someone i met on okcupid and strangely had no cover story. · 104 comments describe your experience with swipe dating apps (tinder, hinge, etc).  part of me thinks i could just stop this post right there since that’s not that much of a story, but if you’ve been thinking about online dating and need a push to get you started, i wanted to share how it all worked for me with a few online dating tips. gold[–]rubywoo 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i dated a guy briefly that i met on tindr, and when i introduced him to all of my coworkers, i told them that we'd met at temple." sometimes i would say it in the monarch's voice from the venture brothers. she flew out and visited, we did the long distance thing for 2 years and she moved in with me about 3 years ago. gold[–]azizansariama[s] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children)sorry lil confused - which story gets the "oh my gosh, that's so great? gold[–]bbqlays 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my girlfriend and i also met on okcupid. i posted a rant about how terrible the dating scene in philadelphia was, he responded in agreement. less than 4 month later, in vegas for my birthday, he proposed and 2 moths later we married. i think he pretended to be distracted by something, as if he hadn't heard them, and i said something like, "oh it's a boring story" and again changed the subject. i was dating someone else, but it was in a really shitty area. the person actually existed who saw the world in the same way i did, and he was about my age, and he was a heterosexual male, and he lived near me, and he liked me as much as i liked him. "i met some guy at a coffee shop, we got along great and just hung out for hours after![–]ild22 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my boyfriend when i was in 7th grade, which was. gold[–]kittensnwaffles 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)met a guy on pof. only a few people really know the mystery google truth. my decoy story is really just an omission of info, "we met on the internet" has people assume that it was a dating website, not a video game. loved your article, it's interesting to consider why online dating works better for some than others. im sessions were not my thing--i'm too guarded and cautious a person and every flirtatious comment made me log off in a panic. each time you opened a new chat on the site, you were assigned a different alias., i once met a couple that had met on okc but usually just told people that they met because his mom rear ended her dad's car, and that they met waiting for the cops to come on the side of the highway. gold[–]hugnkiss22 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)my husband and i met on match.) i told people we met on livejournal since that seemed a bit less shameful than meeting on uo. so we emailed, then met up, and now, two years and some months later, we just got engaged. i would say that it's actually more embarrassing than tinder since tinder is associated with hook ups while okcupid is more for something more serious. not a dating app, a lame internet-connection, tap 100 times a minute, weird high school game app. started looking online for a husband (geez, it's like saying "i started looking online for a toilet plunger") after one of my friends had success finding her husband online. gold[–]joep4618 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my ex and i met on myspace when it was big a few years ago. he freely tells people we met online; but, since my profile was meant as a joke, i tell my friends i met him at barnes & noble (where we first met in person) and i told my parents i met him through a friend. tinder has the stigma of being a hook-up app and that's typically how my friends view it so i have a hard time admitting that we met on there. my boyfriend was also online, killing time until he had to go to the airport and pick up his cousin. gold[–]drumbum54 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my girlfriend on okcupid. in other words, finding my perfect guy was going to mean finding a needle in a haystack. i was just going through the top 25 charts at 3am after getting home from drinking on my shitty 21st birthday and it ended up consuming me for ages. normally i wouldn't be embarrassed about that but we met on a gonewild subreddit. gold[–]puddingpantz 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children)this is actually how i met my boyfriend. i came up with all manner of excuses from "we met through friends" to "i met her in the hospital" (i am a resident physician) when friends and family members would ask how we met. for telling our friends how we met, we just say "online" and everyone assumes dating sites.
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    gold[–]adancingshell 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)i also met my partner online, but i use the "we met through mutual friends" precisely because it cuts off conversation.: have you had a long-term relationship with someone you met online? fresh out of graduate school, i was working my dream job in my dream city. being the hey day of aol, i wrapped my snotty self up in a blanket and logged on. flew out to meet the girl i met online originally and was introduced to my now so when we went to her place to hang out.!Kc 5 years ago i met my fiancé on cl as well :) i posted a random ad on the strictly platonic forum looking for someone to go have sushi with that night. even though i don't regret ever being on okcupid and either does my boyfriend, it's just not the way we want to start off our love story. gold[–]seriouslysarah 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)we had actually met in real life and had friends in common but didn't remember each other.. met the man i’m going to spend my life with on tinder. meeting was awkward at first but after awhile it was like hanging out with one of my best friends. gold[–]emilysbs 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)actually i had the complete opposite reaction. we talked for probably 20 hours over the course of 3 days and then met up at a museum. datinghow to talk to a girl online: proven openersby poeticphilosophy67. i was at my friend's wedding a few years ago and i told the father of the bride (who i'd only met that day) how i met my girlfriend and he looked at me (as greg proops might say) like i was a millipede crawling through his salad. roommates and i threw a 40-oz party and her roommates and a few other friends came over and were actually trying to set her up with one of my roommates. gold[–]puck_slut44 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (1 child)currently dating someone i met on tinder. gold[–]mm2182 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my ex boyfriend on okcupid. gold[–]ella867 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)my ex and i met on okcupid. however to our friends there was no embarrassment though there were a few questions since we were on the forefront of online dating with our friends. just tell people we met through mutual friends because the truth is way too embarrassing. 6 years ago hm, well, that sort of got my hopes up, because that's exactly how i want any date i'm going to have to happen. gold[–]samanthareyna 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children)met my boyfriend in an online chatroom. yes, i had at least one long-term relationship with someone i met online, though we eventually broke up. tinder is something people laugh at, play as a game together, and i have not met anyone who has met someone on tinder that seems ashamed of saying how they met. tell them we met through a friend, which is not false, we met through a friend in the game. such as "he went to high school with my former roommate's brother" like that's a believable way to meet anyone., the bad sites, or--as in the case of craigslist--the free sites. everyone is talking about all the leap day deals, i’m loving it for a different reason this year – i’m celebrating my “first” dating anniversary with my husband. however, when i finally told them that we actually had met through an online dating website and why i chose to sign up, they were very understanding. i say this as someone who tried both offline dating and online dating for years before i finally found my husband--on craigslist, of all places. neither of us are very mainstream either, so it makes sense that us "others" don't do well on the popular dating sites. she and i hit it off and started dating, which lead to living together, and eventually marriage in 2011. the next couple years, he sent me a few messages and occasionally commented on things i posted, sometimes in russian or hebrew, both of which he speaks fluently. gold[–]klm1234 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my last girlfriend and i met on okcupid, but we made up a story that we met at a bar (the same bar we had our first date at)., after a few dates with some complete fails, my future husband reached out to me. an epilogue to my story, after another of my sister's many failed relationships with guys that were definitely not worthy of her came to an end, my parents approached me about how pof works and whether i thought my sister could meet a nice guy online, in the same manner that i met my girlfriend (who they adore). we finally we got engaged in 2012 --i told my parents how we actually met. it's that terrible band's myspace group that got us together. years ago now, so the online dating trend was breaking, but still somewhat taboo - and we met on craigslist - hence the decoy story. gold[–]lonesplendor 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my now-ex on a grouper.
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we told everyone in her family (except her sister in law) and all but 2 of her friends, as well as my family and all my friends that we met at that party. now tell people the truth and encourage our single friends to give online dating a chance. we met about a week after talking, and after about 6 months of courting i moved in with him.[–]natelyswhore22 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met a guy on okcupid and we went on a few dates for a while but ended up just becoming really good friends. gold[–]slimygrrl 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child)not one, but two of my best friends met their husbands online and both gave decoy stories at first. said she only continued to speak with me after seeing my email address (not related to my screenname)..then we were aol instant messenger buddies for a year before we finally met at 16and eventually dated at 21. think we both froze, he just stared at me like he expected me to come up with something on the spot, and i just got aggravated with him for it, and then i think after a minute or two of awkward silence/everyone prodding us for answers, the host of the party saw that we were uncomfortable and changed the subject. i had never met anyone online before and was extremely embarrassed about it so for the first little while i told people that we met at the restaurant i worked in at the time. some point, you’ll have to have the conversation with your boyfriend or girlfriend about getting rid of the dating profile. but that's what a strong sense of self-preservation and soda (safer online dating alliance). gold[–]kuroitan 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)while they're not my personal stories, i am friends with two couples who have met through online gaming (cod and wow). anyway, after we talked for a while and got to know each other, i moved away from my home town (lived in my whole life) to where he lived and started a whole new life. sometimes when we go out we like to tell the waiter we just met on craigslist and fight over who's supposed to pay. sometimes this was enough for people, so no lying was necessary. harris 6 years ago from hemet, cathat was an awesome story. my mother ended up finding out, but his still doesn't know. this was way back in '03, and there was still a lot of stigma surrounding online dating. i was 25 years old, i thought my life was starting to fall into place. he tells everyone that we met in georgetown (which i hate) at a bar (that no longer exists and didn't exist anymore when we met). none of my parents know how i really met him and most of my extended family is clueless as to how i really met him. (apparently, i didn’t think i did back when my relationship with that one good man ended. my earlier experience with online dating was not as positive as i’d like it to be. or you can take a page out of my husband’s book and play the game “perfect in every way but…” and list a quirk, creating discussion if you would date the person. gold[–]decoystory 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)my wife and i met on a dating website about 8 years ago when she was 18 and i was 22. gold[–]molrobocop 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)i tell people i used to drive my wife to elementary school. i researched the matter and found that this is actually a myth, according to: anecdotal evidence--go ahead, ask your great aunt myrtle how long her generation dated, back in the day. i told my family and a couple of close friends that we met online, but no one else. at the time (early 2011), it was becoming popular on university campuses and one day, i went on the site just to browse. if you meet someone and they want to lie about how they met you, you need to run because who wants their relationship based on a lie? 5 years ago i met my husband on cl as well. this is something that's come up a few times in focus groups. myself out there – on a dating site — was not at all easy. we were friends for a number of years, and eventually ended up dating years later. gold[–]loukiss4 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my boyfriend and i met on facebook. at the time, i was trying to book a tour for my friends band, routing them through nashville. i like to tell people that guys i met at a bar/ through friends/ etc. as i say, not as i didi then did something you should never do on the first date after you. at the time we met, i was working in an office where 75% of my coworkers were women, and the men that did work there were either way too old for me, or already in relationships, or creeps. gold[–]talkkshowhost 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met a former boyfriend on omegle in 2009.

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well yeah, that's how we met and we really said it was through friends. gold[–]edtowb 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children)we didnt meet through online dating, but through a forum/webboard/whatever you want to call it. i kind of wish sometimes that we had some kind of chance meeting that led to us being together, but it didn't happen that way. all of my friends knew who he was because i talk about my in-game adventures a lot but when we decided to date in 2009, it was weird explaining it to new people. i told my family and coworkers that we met at a bar, just cause i didn't want them to know i was involved in online dating." with my husband in particular, "i met this really cute guy at the andrew bird concert. i'll tell you my story and maybe you'll see why. gold[–]battleofwits420 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my so and i of 5 years met by proxy through a friend of hers that i met online. gold[–]zack777attack 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)met on a dating site, dated for around 6 months our cover story was she picked me up in a bar with the line "hi my name is ##, i like gingers" to sell the story her name in my phone was ##(likes gingers). he posted in my city's mfw, and i often poked around in there for fun; some people are hilariously desperate. gold[–]tspoon09 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i totally agree with it being something people laugh at. only my brother and a few close friends know the real deal. i say forcibly because i was all like "no, we just met, no i can't. my family and a couple of our friends know how we met, but we were afraid of the reaction his parents and our distant relatives would have. i have a lot of close friends i've met through various online communities so i'd long stopped caring about any stigma that came with meeting someone on the internet in general. gold[–]mccartyb03 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)wife and i met on aim back in 2001. i freaked out because here was this complete, anonymous stranger who knew something about me. i was still emailing other guys who'd responded to my craigslist personals ad. gold[–]itsalrightt 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my bf through okcupid. i told some people we met while on vacation in the same place, other people i told he used to live in my town and moved away. she found out he lied years later after we had already been dating for 8 years. gold[–]blogswithbenefits 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met and dated an ex for 3 years who i met on chatroulette back in the day. dating36 interesting facts, tips and statistics about online dating and relationshipsby sophie5. that my then 22- year old husband was messaging every girl in his zip code on aim hoping someone would talk to him? my so and i became friends after the girl i went to visit turned out to be not the greatest person to both of us. now she has gotten over that and tells everyone "we met in a creepy chat room". the first time we met, we each brought friends and decided to hang out as a group so it wouldn't be weird. i met a guy i dated for a while through okcupid and told most of my friends we met in the library tripping over a book on the ground. we dated on and off for 6 years, i'm 26 now and i think i've only told my husband and one or two other people how i really met that guy. sometimes it wouldn't be, so i'd move on to the next (also totally true) stage of stating the facts without actually stating the facts:"and it turned out that we actually had a lot of mutual friends. gold[–]kimkep86 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my husband on eharmony in 2010 and there was only 1 person who really knew how we met, and she kind of sabotaged our first date (crashed it with her baby daddy and all they did was fight while we were sitting there like uhhhh wtf is going on? i had always envisioned building a family of my own. we have been together 6 years, met online and are in our 60s. anyway, i never thought i'd see him again so naturally the following day i told my friends all about my night and we proceeded to making fun of him like all my other okcupid dates. as it was, her parents (as well as overly protective brothers and extremely nosey sister) were not cool with her dating, much less dating some guy she met online. i had grown up in a big, loving family with parents who call each other “my heart” to this very day. and if i met someone at a bar, that was rare – i was too busy catching up with my friends anytime we went out. we met for the first time in the middle of the day and made out in her car. it was a pretty good cover story since he lived in the same area as my friend's school. figured out who it was, and from then until august, 2010 when we first met in person, we texted every day and phoned once per week or so.

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i have no shame telling my loved ones that we met on tinder. one thing i learned was that the people who succeed in finding mates on those sites are in the mainstream. i realize more people are meeting this way, especially in my age demographic (mid-30s) when there are fewer places to meet people "naturally", i am still a bit embarrassed. gold[–]sassybook5 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children)my boyfriend likes to tell people we met in prison since meeting through a mutual friend's christmas party isn't much of a story. husband and i meet back in the day on aim. gold[–]atomicblb 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i've used "we just met at the mall/store/a place and hit it off" for that situation. i do things with her that my wife would never agree to even try, and that her husband could not have convincingly pulled off. even though meeting online still carries a stigma, i am the first one to tell people the truth about how we actually met. texting for about 4 months i started to really like him, but the problem was he lived on the other side of the country in los angeles (i'm from philadelphia) although as luck/fate/whatever you believe in would have it, he lived 15 minutes from my dream school ucla, who's acceptance/rejection i was still waiting for.'s get this out of the way right now: yes, there are serious disadvantages to online dating. gold[–]admiralpantz 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my ex and i met on craigslist.'m a firm believer that everyone should learn the techniques needed for successful online dating. i mean, really good husband material--smart, nice, reliable, creative, and they seemed to like me, too. gold[–]doctorsandwich 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)the first girl i dated from okcupid turned out to be from my college as well, so we typically would just answer "well, we go to school together" whenever people would ask us how we met. i lied through my teeth, telling people we met when he was visiting a friend who went to my college and just kept in touch from there., i've made a lot of great friends online and have met a few of them in person. couple years into the relationship i ended the lie and came clean to all friends and family that we had met on "the livejournal. nine months, any time i went to bars with friends, or any kind of event, i'd think to myself, "maybe i'll run into that cute girl with the tattoos from the salon. the real story, which we are now comfortable sharing, is that we met on myspace in 2008. i was his top match, so he added me and i accepted because of our high music compatibility and i thought he followed me on tumblr (i had recently made my last. gold[–]esoomcol -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children)met ex on ffxi (aw yiss video game dating). we have always told our family and friends that we met on a college campus tour when she was looking to transfer schools. gold[–]riotcoming 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)my husband and i met online roleplaying on aol back in 1997. confident that how long a person dates does not determine the success of a marriage, i told my splendid craigslist discovery (he loves it when i talk about him like he's a treasure i found while on vacation on the riviera) that we're good to go. met on craigslist and i do think we hit it off because we are both very fit and attractive. we met on gaia online and didn't tell anyone for so long. dating is the wave of the future--we're totally not in kansas anymore. turns out he stayed on that site (aff), okcupid, plentyoffish, ashley madison, and a few other sites well into our relationship. · 45 comments have you ever used an online dating site specifically for adultery such as ashleymadison?'m usually not embarrassed to tell the story, i actually love the fact that our story was very "you've got mail"-esque, but as far as my parents are concerned. 6 years ago i am engaged to a guy i met on craigslist. luckily, we have a friend in common, so we lie and say we met through them. she still asks me for dick pics and can barely keep her hands off my junk. there have been a few times when we are asked how we met and while one of us says, "online," and the other one says at the exact same moment, "oh, at this hiking place. after 5 years of talking, he finally broke up with his girlfriend (the reasons totally unrelated to me), we met each other for the first time, hung out for a couple of months as friends, then eventually moved on to being in a relationship. we pretended we hadn't met and walked around the whole grocery store making up questions to ask each other. so, it turned out that one of the guys on the grouper had mutual friends and went to the same undergrad as one of my girlfriends who was on the grouper with me. in reality we met on yahoo's dating site, which is now defunct but was a meet (meat? gold[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my last boyfriend and i met on ok cupid. gold[–]aclaire1990 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)the opposite.

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gold[–]ivant2balawyer 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my husband and i met on a popular live streaming website. gold[–]jay_mac_1982 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)this stigma of online dating needs to go away, like, yesterday. i do notice though, that people who are unfamiliar with tinder when you say you met on a dating app, they seem more confused, so i would just say we met through mutual friends (since we did have mutual friends and that was shown on tinder). gold[–]terny 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)met a girl on tinder. 6 years ago i met my husband on craigslist as well! and i love the guy, so i don't care anymore about how we met. gold[–]notnicholas 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children)my wife and i are an aim-couple as well. it wasn't until after the relationship ended that i felt comfortable telling anyone about how we actually met. it was a combination of boredom and procrastination that led me to the site, and there was only one other person on the chat feature. i haven't had much luck, but i may try it again sometime. I can vouch for the fact that there are happy endings to some online dating stories. honestly, the story itself is so long and boring for people that we just end up telling people that we met through the indian community or something along those lines. we actually met back when i was 13, and he was 14 (14 years ago), on a forum site for roleplaying games. he was the first person i even looked at follow an ugly breakup from my cheating ex-husband. and since then i've met many friends online and my current relationships, but no longer feel the need for a decoy story. we actually met through a mutual friend we played runescape with. gold[–]hbryan55 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child)my husband and i have a pretty unique story about how we met.[–]squirreljam 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i'm not ashamed of meeting my boyfriend on okcupid. gold[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my one of my exes through xanga/aol instant messenger/myspace. we had met once before and have a few mutual friends so the initial conversation was easy to get into. book my mom (hint-hint, nudge-nudge) had given me , find a husband after 35 (using what i know at harvard business school). is why internet dating using online personals is a good thing. then we started walking and in a burst of what can only be described as first-meeting insanity, we proceeded to spill all our secrets to each other, starting with the day we were born and ending with the day we met. we chatted for a while about hockey, and soon he asked me if my favourite band was the red hot chili peppers - they were and still are, and will forever be. we dated for almost 2 years before i told my parents the truth and luckily i was 19 and in college so the blowback wasn't bad. i was online dating, my roommate was too and at least three other people in my office. i tell everyone on my end how we actually met. that said, i was rather embarrassed when he started describing my okcupid profile to his extended family over thanksgiving dinner. gold[–]purrfectlyflawed 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my ex-husband on online dating site back in 1999. gold[–]aprayerforkb 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)technically my boyfriend and i met in a writer's workshop." both stories were suspicious because one husband would never go to trader joe's unless a girl had dragged him in there, and the other husband has trouble staying awake past 9pm. gold[–]maddie-moo 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children)my boyfriend and i met on tinder, too! gold[–]missmylele 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my boyfriend on plenty of fish which is a dating site most people assume is mostly for one night stands and hooking up. any case, i think we gave up on trying to come up with an alternative story after a while - it's pretty normal for people to meet online now, and i think at one point i told his parents we actually met online after he'd gone to the trouble of spinning them a cover story (oops! craigslist one night and did something i found out later that few women actually do. · 9 comments in the 80s & 90s, many couples met through newspaper classified ads. with my parents it's that we took an online writing class together and had to do a group project. i still don't know how i'm going to tell my parents, so if anyone has any suggestions that'd be great. gold[–]nefariousmango 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my husband on okcupid in 2005. comments are not for promoting your articles or other sites.

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years before that i had been seeing a girl who i met on a game called ultima online and who had just turned 18 (i was 20. gold[–]wiffleball_lgnd 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (5 children)met my girlfriend on tinder. my boyfriend and i just joined some public chats with others but then quickly found out that we clicked well with each other and moved on to private chats then. we were still friends - in fact - best friends even though we had never met or had never seen each other at that point. gold[–]rory1125 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my boyfriend and i met on tinder. here we are, three years to the date, and we've been happily dating ever since. nervous does not begin to describe my feelings when i met him that morning. when we explain to people how we met they cannot believe it lol. their first date was at a coffee place, so they tell everyone they first met at a coffee place. i was a little embarrasssed by how we met and when i told him he laughed and said he already planned on telling his parents we met at an orgy. he got to town, we continued exchanging messages, and feeling particularly brave, i invited him to just come straight over to my place for a beer to see if we even hit it off. i was working at an instrument shop and told my friends she came in to sell her violin, granted she's never played an instrument. when i tell people how i met my boyfriend i say, "we met in a creepy online dating chatroom almost a year later. my boyfriend and i met on okcupid which is somewhat normal for our age set in the city we're in, but still weird enough that if you answer completely honestly people go, "oh. a few days later, after talking every night on gchat, i told him we had to meet or else it would drive my curiosity crazy. our first date was 14 hours, just walking and talking - we met and the day and night just flew by as we got to know each other. his screen name included the word goatse and he ruined the lyrics to one of my favorite m83 songs by telling me he thought they were saying "cuban dressing. gold[–]wiffleball_lgnd 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children)you would stop dating someone because of how you met? at the beginning, when people would ask me how we met, (if he wasn't around) i would say we met through friends and quickly change the subject. he joined my friends and i to summer in the hamptons. that was shortly after things had ended with my fwb of 1 year.-aged (in my 30s), a card-carrying member of generation x, geeky,More ironic than fun-loving, and didn't fall into any easy-to-identify. circa 2005, that's how i knew i was aimlessly time wasting on the web, if i caught myself with a window open to pof. gold[–]benjimain 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children)my girlfriend and i used to tell people we met because we got in a minor fender bender with each other (insert "rear-ending" joke here). had our first date at silverlake lounge in silver lake in los angeles to catch a friend of hers playing, and i'm heavily involved in the music scene here in la, so for the first few months, we just said we met at a show. i felt super embarrassed telling anyone that wasn't aware of what grouper was how we met. gold[–]jesshwv 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)for the first few years of our relationship, my boyfriend and i told everyone we met "at the club" or "at the art gallery" so people would think we're cool. i wasn't embarrassed about meeting online, however it wasn't as mainstream back there and most people i knew were against online dating. gold[–]annumil04 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my current boyfriend on a weird, indian networking site about 8 years ago only because my mother was on the same site and she wanted me to join so she could have more friends. i ran across my boyfriends and instantly knew i wanted him. my parents are pretty conservative, but my dad was pretty awed by the whole thing. share all of this to say, online dating could be an option for you to meet the love of your life. day he struck up a conversation with me about the shows i'd been to (i keep a running list on my blog) and we exchanged "shoutbox messages" for about 2 months until finally he pm'd me for my phone number and we began texting. stopped dating for a few years and then got back together." these are both fucking adorable in my book but hard to explain as a meet cute to moms and nanas and at work functions. there were the men who were nearly twice my age and thought i would respond to their messages. three years ago, i met the love of my life – my husband – on an internet dating site.[–]bethmariecantoo 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my fiancée and i met at a halloween party he threw my freshman year of college. got a bunch of random canadians added to my fb contacts in june of 2007. i don't think either of us wanted to admit we were on that site considering we're 24 and 23, with healthy social lives.

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so, for a while we told people we happened to meet while he was visiting dallas (from cali) and i was in dallas at the same time, we told people we just happened to be at the same movie theater at the same time i can't remember when we finally told everyone the truth, but we ended up staying together for 11 years, so not bad for my first relationship! my husband had one of his friends write his profile for him. answer your question aziz, we always tell people that we met through mutual friends." and then i smiled and walked out with my client because i had more clients to pick up. i then decided to give online dating a fair try to expand my pool.;dr: met a girl on the internet, turned out to be a girl i had a fleeting moment with and wondered about for the better part of a year, we're getting married. we had been assigned aliases from the site, i was gourd and he was blackberry, and we spent about two hours chatting away. when she got back in town we met up for another make out session in her car and wound up fucking in the back seat. ended up becoming my "tutor" in the music classes we shared (this was basically my excuse to get to know him, and usually ended up schooling him with my knowledge on the subject). my friends thought i was crazy for agreeing to meet a stranger in person that i met on the internet (it always lingered in my head that he could be a serial killer) but i was always drawn to him. we were not the least bit interested in dating each other since we were just guildmates and he had a girlfriend at the time. gold[–]sugabear1234 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my boyfriend on okcupid. met my husband online, and in honor of our first dating anniversary, thought I'd share a few online dating tips that worked for me. back then, the onion, used to have an online personals section of their site. gold[–]fantasymagic3 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children)i met my ex boyfriend on a gay hook up site. i agreed to meet him in a public place and my mom ditched me trusting i was in good hands. gold[–]moderncutthroat 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my bf of 3 years on craigslist. gold[–]asteve78 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my boyfriend online and was totally embarrassed by it! she went out on soooo many dates before she met the perfect guy. we are both artists and just tell people we met at a local art shop. i don't think either of us thought we'd ever end up on an online dating site, which is why i think a "free" site was why we were on there. gold[–]killer_kurves 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago* (0 children)i'm jealous of everyone here who met their significant other on tinder/okcupid. ) and we always told people we met at a bar near ft. on top of that, we didn't even meet on an established dating site. i've been dating this guy for a while now and we live together. cover story we used was that i flew out to visit a friend (i just omitted the banging part) and his girlfriend and my so were roommates. nevertheless, the fact is that we felt quite embarassed due to the general perception of this sort of web sites. we did happen to go to the same school, have a class together, and live in the same neighborhood i ended up finding out (oh and he was my friend's cousin). my gf doesn't care so i will be the one making up a story. i then started telling people my boyfriend was a friend of that guy who was friends with my girlfriend and that we met at a bar where we were all hanging out. besides the fact that we met through a website that randomly matched us up. gold[–]rosedread0 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my boyfriend of four years on okcupid and we are pretty open about it and i don't usually feel any shame telling people how we met. my boyfriend and i are likely going to be married and i definitely don't want how we met to be part of the "story" told about us at the wedding. my husband however, thinks he showed the bigger sign of commitment, since he deleted his after a month of us dating. someone told me to try it out lol so i did and i met this guy just randomly talking about going to a hockey game and that's where we decided to meet lol. dating is the best, it's just like a bar, except it's cheaper, quieter, and you don't have to leave your house. gold[–]omniskittles 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children)uhm i met an ex on pof and told my parents we met at a hockey game, brought him home to meet the family and we awkwardly lied about how we met. i really didn't need his grandparents to know that my first conversations with their grandson revolved around a true story i stuck on my profile describing the time i, at the age of 21, accidentally swallowed a canadian dollar coin. had never discussed where we stood on telling people how we met, but i could tell he felt kind of weird about it, so unfortunately we didn't have an exit strategy planned for last year when we were at a nye gathering with a few other couples and they were all telling their stories of how they met, and some had really interesting or funny stories of how they met (all in person).[–]dparis693 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my husband of 9 years through aol member directory!

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her roomies were actually trying to set her up with one of my roommates, but that didn't really work out. there are so many online dating horror stories floating around, but people really need to realize how many success stories there are. his pick up line was: hi, my name is josh. our cover story was that "we were in school together," which was technically true: i was in my third year of university and she was in her first year of similar programs (i studied communications, she was in a communication and cultural studies program). met my husband on craigslist: internet dating succes stories are no mythupdated on november 22, 2016. the story is plausible because my mom is a scientist and my stepdad is a former fda agent. datingonline dating-how to progress correctly and not make mistakes along the wayby dixie0. signed up on okcupid probably three other times and all it took was getting a first message to say “i don’t want to to do this” and immediately deleted my account. eventually the time came when i met a bunch of his old friends and they asked us how we met. i was even more embarressed and told them we met online. gold[–]vegantiff 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met the guy i'm seeing on craigslist. gold[–]parallel_sassing 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)met on okc, decoy story is that we met jet skiing in monaco. been dating online on and… read more »vote up0vote down  reply8 months 4 days agobrowngrl86share on twittershare on googletried it for 4 years…bad experiences…trying the old fashioned way, again. all i know is that i never imagined that i would meet my life partner this way …. we were in love, but too scared to say anything since we hadn't actually met in person. personally, i'd rather have people know we met online than while trashed. i say that i met her through mutual friends or that i just bumped into her in the city. profile picture featured me & my friend; he was hoping i was my friend. golduse of this site constitutes acceptance of our user agreement and privacy policy. gold[–]an_egg 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)met my girlfriend on badoo actually. two months later i lost my job and decided i could either stay in vegas and look for a job in a shitty job market or move to virginia and try having a real relationship. kroulik 6 years ago from minnesotai met my husband online at together christian. i lie to people and tell them we met at college (he never atteneded). to those people, my decoy story was always just a bit of an alteration of what our first date was. gold[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my girlfriend of one year on an online dating website (plenty of fish), and when we first started going out, i was incredibly embarrassed to tell people that we had met online. honor of galentine’s day: how i reconnected with my girlfriends. so i'm like second hand, second generation, online dating once removed, whatever you want to call it. there were more frogs than princes, which sometimes made me consider deleting my profile. he straightened out my priorities on the phone--and the first time we talked, we were both so nervous that my voice shook and he sounded like the grim reaper--we agreed to meet at starbucks the next day. but it's not a coincidence that i found my husband on craigslist.[–]flibbertygiblet 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my so(male)and i(female)met through playing world of warcraft. anyway, we told that story our first six months of dating. i'd been new to chicago for maybe a month and hadn't met any 'friends' and was working crazy hours. but i was inching towards 30 and my probability of having that beautiful kind of love seemed (at the time) to be dwindling. one day, we were talking about going out and she told me she had went to a party about a month before we met online, i told her we could use that as cover. dont mind telling people we met on the internet, but we sometimes tend to leave the aol part out of it. if people happened to ask how we met, he'd just say that we were "old friends". up0vote down  reply8 months 4 days agoaiychshare on twittershare on googlemet my boyfriend on tinder." on many occasions i told myself to just man up and go back to the salon to ask her out. she was the first and only person i even met off of it.

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plus, i think tinder has less social stigma of desperation, like other dating websites seem to have. my cover story is that we met through mutual friends. gold[–]pdunphy23 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my lifelong friend met his fiancee on jdate, that jewish dating site. a few months later, he confessed that he was tired of being single and was looking to get some, so he sent the same exact message to all of the single girls he was friends with on myspace that he thought were hot, 12 in total. when asked, i never really had a problem saying we met "online," but i avoided the name of the website if i could (i've always considered it a little trashy, even when i was on it -- but it was free, so). one was "we met at trader joe's" and the other was "we met at a new year's party. datingonline dating: your love life isn't over at 40by holley rich coleman1. gold[–]popperpenguin 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my boyfriend and i met on espinthebottle back in 2007 when we were 17. she said, "my family is local, but i actually think we met last year when you picked up a woman from the salon i work at. i figured, what better way to celebrate leap day on the blog than share how we met – online.. and a bit of craigslist dating advice: don't trust anyone. asked me for my number in the music theory lab we had together. he didn't realize that until i told him so now everyone, including his parents, think we met while barhopping and too drunk to know which bar it was. gold[–]torontogirl80 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i actually met my (only) boyfriend through a missed connections-like website with an anonymous chat feature - the site no longer exists. when i was gonna go meet her (and her friend) she told me that we needed a story because she didn't want to say that we met through a dating app. gold[–]lilacfrostyness 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i have a decoy story, but i really only told it to my parents and a few other (usually older) people that wouldn't understand. i was just thinking about dating, and i just wanted to see what was out there. those who marry someone that they first met in person will be in the minority. we needed to have a good story as to how we met. you apply the same rule of writing fiction that you do to writing an online dating profile: you show, not tell. my husband had signed up too with two of his friends. we were friends for years, and then finally met and eventually wound up married. anyone met their significant other through online dating or similar way and been kind of embarrassed about it and created a 'decoy' story to tell people how you met? he came up, i didn't know what to tell my dad, so i just sad we met through a mutual friend. what's funny is that people believed us; when we met he was at a top engineering school and i was studying at a buddhist university an hour away. gold[–]kensingtonw 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children)my ex-gf and i met on okcupid. yeah, xanga was my hang out for my angsty 15 year old self. gold[–]jeeb00 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children)i met my girlfriend through an online dating site 8 years ago (still together) and for a while we were a bit embarrassed to tell people how we met. since we are both into beer we have have been telling people we met at a beer tasting, and bonded over comic books. gold[–]pointlessbeats 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago* (0 children)my boyfriend and i met on an iphone app. i told a few close friends how we actually met, but most people got the story of "we met at target. by then, this band had gained a reputation for having childish, lame fans and it would be pretty embarrassing to say we met because of this band. everyone fell for it, and i don't think anyone had any clue from our completely normal exterior that we would even be on a site like aff, let alone meet a significant other we are introducing to our families on there.'s meeting my parents for the first time later this month. through the many, hi, lets hookup, and unwanted picture, one email caught my attention. i can't believe i met such a perfect match for me on cl. alternatively, i just say we met at a bar because technically our first face-to-face was at a bar. we ended up talking for the first time on aim randomly, the conversation went something like:-hey, do you like mcdonalds? i really like him but the fact that we met on tinder still really bothers me. i was usually pretty up front with my parents about meeting friends online if they asked, but i usually tried not to talk about them too much to avoid the topic in general.

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gold[–]aspen8807 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)my husband and i went to high school together, so it's easy enough to say we met in class sophomore year and reconnected senior year. gold[–]shabby_swell 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my fiancé on okcupid 6 years ago. no, i've never had a long-term relationship with anyone i met online. my buddy met a girl on a dating website (we live in illinois and she lived in guadalajara, mexico). i told friends how we really met, but as for my family i told them we met at the bar where we had our first date. i think the decoy stories were lamer than how we actually met.;dr: i met my current boyfriend on a music website and my parents think i met him at summer camp. you ever had a long-term relationship with a woman or man you met on the internet? what happened during that single week of online dating that cemented our relationship so quickly that i--a freakish, neurotic sort--was convinced to meet him? we went to the same high school and graduated the same year but because our town is so large, we never actually met before facebook. gold[–]touge_hero 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my girlfriend at the time and i met through a social network called tagged. my date had drifted to a conversation with another group and was just within earshot to hear my most awkward response to the inevitable "how'd you meet? we all kind of separated at the bar, then eventually we all go home separately and my roommates and i order from the local diner that delivered breakfast food. we'll still tell people we met on okcupid, but it's definitely after a second of hesitation.[–]ezcheez82 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child)i met my wife on craigslist while we were living/working in chicago post-college. gold[–]crabbydotca 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i think there's a lot of pressure to have a wild romantic fairy tale meeting, and "i met him online" doesn't live up to that expectation. he and i are from completely different places and if it weren't for that website, i may not have ever met him. it's where you can synch up a website to track the music you listen to and the artists you really like. i know the story like the back of my hand and can recite it at a moments notice like it really happened. she had broken up with a longterm boyfriend a few months prior, so she was just picking up on the dating scene when we met. we laughed about how we met whenever we thought of it, it was pretty crazy we even talked in the first place. gold[–]michelle6f27 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)my husband and i met when i was 18 working at taco bell.)submitted 3 years ago by azizansariamajust saw a post on another thread about someone who met through tumblr and said they don't tell people the real story and make a decoy story up. when pressed for details by my mom, i said he approached me spontaneously. we broke up amicably, but my mom still brings up how special i am, evidenced by the fact that "not every woman is so alluring that a stranger would ask her on a date, apropos of nothing but her beauty. we told people for a very long time that we met at a party. so we told the friend we met through a common facebook friend (we got lucky we had one). over the holidays when he was back in dc, i met all of his friends and his family - and that's where the inevitable "so how did you all meet? gold[–]pandorasbottle 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children)so this is a slight permutation of the topic but here goes:My ex-fiancee and i met on okcupid, and we actually had the opposite response--we proudly told people where we'd met, and encouraged others to not be afraid of dating sites. last year, on a drunken dare from my girlfriends, i made a profile on the website adult friend finder (aff) - basically a site that is purely for sex and makes no qualms about it.'m less embarrassed about our story than he is but he always tells people simply that we live in the same town and met through mutual friends. we've been dating for about 4 months now and we both think it's a little embarrassing how we met. all of my gay friends were fine with online dating and got me into it years before most of my other (straight, female) friends. gold[–]scientist_tz 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children)our decoy story back in 2004 was that we met at a coffee shop and that was true, our first date was at a coffee shop but we had actually met online. dating6 reasons why looking for a relationship online is a bad ideaby carolyn dahl85. gold[–]ezcheez82 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children)a few more details:I posted the advert on craigslist - she replied. gold[–]collageofechoes 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my boyfriend on okcupid. gold[–]sallyslater 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)i met my husband on myspace when i was studying abroad in another country. we specifically planned out the first time we would meet each other in person at a museum near campus, so we could say that we met each other at the museum rather than on omegle., i'd rather say i met someone online than lie and say we met at a bar or the produce section of stop and shop or some crap.

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