11 Things You'll Only Understand If You Hook Up With Your Best “[after hooking up with my friend], i didn’t see him or hear from him until i saw him the next week at the bar, and he completely ignored me,” says steph*, a senior at notre dame university. we both blamed it on being drunk, so it was sort of overlooked and forgotten., falling for a friend can seem like a great way to build a relationship. even if you're not looking for something serious, try to think of the big picture.’s also a distinct possibility that because you’re good friends, you can openly talk about what happened and have it not be weird. i mean, we’ve certainly gone back and forth with having tiny feelings for each other. we’re still friends, but i think it’s because we haven’t talked about it to this day. friendships and sexual relationships are both challenging on their own, so it’s best not to combine without careful consideration. in a whirlwind weekend, we were no longer just friends.
I Hooked Up With My Best Friend's Boyfriend - Hooking Up With clearly you care about the friendship, so you need to think about how much you’re willing to risk when exploring a new dimension of your relationship. boyfriend asked me out when we were best friends and even though i declined him five times because i wasn’t ready, when i eventually said yes it was one of the best decisions i ever made 😀. asked collegiettes and the experts about what it’s really like to hook up with a friend, what to consider beforehand and how to deal afterwards. met my best guy friend 4 years ago, and we always had a small flirtationship back and forth, but we always said we’d never be together, that it’s not like that, all the typical things. although we say we’re friends, we rarely hang out. we hooked up multiple times, and i guess i just wanted a little more respect than to be just a hookup. “after ending a hook-up, it can be difficult to maintain a friendship, especially if someone becomes emotionally involved,” says ryan, a sophomore from the university of connecticut. in a weird way, that’s what being a good friend is about. she’d probably kill me if she knew i said that, but i mean it as a compliment.